Friday, August 20, 2010

Wouldn't you prefer it if your future spouse waited for you?

I noticed a lot of questions about having sex with a boyfriend or girlfriend, or some person they just met recently. Truth be told wouldn't it mean more to you that some man or woman chose not to have sex until they married you? Think about how much less drama there would be in your life!Wouldn't you prefer it if your future spouse waited for you?
I personally think people should have a 'relationship' prior to stepping it up to the physical, but I think to wait until marriage is not only unrealistic - it sets up too many expectations upon which you may have based your reason to marry. There's nothing wrong with dating and getting to know someone emotionally prior to getting into a physical relationship because you are right - - if the timing is wrong you have a lot of regret and drama.Wouldn't you prefer it if your future spouse waited for you?
Some people base a relationship on sex. I believe that if you have not had sex yet than you should wait until both parties are agreement
There wasn't any drama in my life after I married my husband. He never asked me anything about my previous relationships.

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