PS dont suggest divorce, this person is still in love with their spouse, just not turned on by themWhat do you do when everyone else gets you hot except your spouse?
sorry to say, but this is when people cheatWhat do you do when everyone else gets you hot except your spouse?
use your imagination and fantasize lol that usually works
Depends on the people. I would never tell my husband ';I am not turned on by you';, but we both know that sex is pretty low on the list of important things in our marriage, and we're both ok with it. If sex and sexual chemistry is very important to you, I would try and figure out what went wrong in the marriage that made the initial chemistry disappear like that. Maybe it's something you two can change if you pay attention to it - and maybe it's just in your (or his) nature to lose sexual interest after being together for a while. What has your experience been in previous relationships? Were you able to sustain your sexual interest, or does your mind tend to wander after some time together?
that was a difficult one for me too so we discussed it like adults and decided on an open marriage.
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I would start to masturbate in front of her. maybe that would turn him/her on and away you go with good sex.
Learn to fake it! If you love someone, you'll try and satisfy that part of their life. Love is all about giving so dig deep, be convincing and provide the physical aspect as well.
The couple need to agree to get into counseling. A marriage counselor or sex therapist may help. Maybe they need to try a strip club (Husband at a female strip club/ wife at a male strip club) Then meet up at a certain time to go home :)
Well I would talk to them and then suggest therapy together..ALSO therapy for yourself
fake it. If you still love him and want to be with him then continue to make him happy. you can always use your imagination to make it spicy. It's all a matter of mind, you need to reteach yourself to be attracted to him. find things about him that turn you on and go from there.
Sorry but I can honestly say I would not be in love with someone that turned me off.
Unless his wallet was HOT LOL! Sounds that that is what is keeping you around too. We all do it for the money, eh?
LIke the others said, you are in the beginning of the desire to cheat.
Close the eyes and think of someone else. Watch porn and think of someone else.
Well, you can always put them in sexy clothing. Of course not every outfit fits for everyone, but if you know your partners body type, you shold be okay.
I'm right there with you. Maybe we can help each other out with this
Sorry, but I don't buy it. If the one spouse isn't sexually attracted to the other, then it isn't ';love.'; Time for a divorce before the other spouse gets humiated.
then screw everyone else that gets you hot.
We have been friends all this time and I didnt know.....Just kidding.
Get something on the side to take the edge off.
Well then this person need to find out the reason why s/he does not find their spouse sexually attractive. This could be done by themselves by make a list or by consulting with a counselor. One s/he has the answer, then work on each on of those issues. And please do not tell the spouse that you feel unattractive, you will break their heart. Try to be subtle about resolving your issues.
WHY DOES EVERYONE THINK COUNCELING IS ALWAYS THE WAY TO GO? SAVE YOUR MONEY HONEY. IF THE THRILL IS GONE THEN YOU SHOULD BE TOO. WHEN YOU START THINKING ABOUT SEXIN' OTHER PEOPLE INSTEAD OF THE ONE YOUR WITH, THEN YOU NEED TO TELL THIS MAN HOW YOU FEEL.
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