Have you ever lost that loving feeling for your spouse?

Did you get it back or did it go away permanently?Have you ever lost that loving feeling for your spouse?
Now I have that darm ';You've Lost That Loving Feeling'; song stuck in my head.





The answer -- yes; I'd lost that loving feeling (ooooh, that loving feeling...). How could I not after the horror show she's put on? I think if it comes back, it comes back in waves of nostalgia.





Or, for a moment or two, you forget everything and imagine you're with someone new. So then it's a new love.





Or you have a love of feeling like a family.





But it's never fireworks again.Have you ever lost that loving feeling for your spouse?
Well I know what you mean (even though I'm just a sophomore in high school lol), and I think there is still hope that it will re-kindle.





It's just that you ought to remind yourself why you love that person and then you will remember the good times you two had. It will bring a smile to your face, I guarantee.





Some people think they don't care about the people close to them anymore, but that feeling will eventually go away once they remember why they care about those people.





I wish the best for you. Hang on there!
It went away permanently. All the little hurts and annoyances slowly built up over time until I couldn't take it any more. Then it was as if I suddenly woke up one day realizing that I was married to the wrong person.





When he talked to me, the words went through one ear and out the other. When he got upset or angry, I was indifferent. I stopped confiding in him and telling him things. I just didn't care any more.





When it gets this bad, you're at the point of no return. No, I never got it back. We were divorced within a year. I have been happily married to someone else for over 23 years.
I've never *lost* it. I definitely feel as though there truly is a flame burning and on some days that flame is just barely a flicker, but 99.99999999% of the time, that flame is on full force. The flicker also only lasts a few hours. The flame hasn't gone out in the 3 years that I've known him, the 4 months that we first dated, the 2 years we were broken up, and the 6 months we've been dating this time. Obviously, his flame didn't go out either considering we are dating again..





Hopefully this makes sense.
Yes...lost it quite a while ago and let me tell you why. I'm not perfect, but I do try. I work hard, I do my own laundry, I clean up after myself and the kids, I can fix about anything on the house or cars, I take care of the yard, I'm patient and loving, I'm supportive even when the wife totals the car like she did last December(I Didn't and still haven't given her any grief about that!), I don't verbally or physically abuse her. I take care of her BUT I'm still not looked up too by her, she looks at me with contempt...sure, she will smile here and there when I get home from work but it's not like the thought ever crosses her mind ';HEY, YOU KNOW, I GOT A GOOD HUSBAND!'; I just saved her parents $800 dollars cause I put a clutch in her dads car for him and I was REALLY sore from it...we both were on vacation and the kids were in school and she didn't even offer to maybe give me a back rub, I'm like ';HEY, DON'T MIND ME OVER HERE IN PAIN CAUSE I PUT A CLUTCH IN YOUR DADS CAR...I KNOW IT WOULD BE TOO MUCH TO ASK TO GET A BACK RUB OVER HERE! How can you keep love going when you don't feel loved?
During year 11 our marriage was completely on the rocks. Yes, I got to the point where ';I just didn't care anymore.';





I learned to talk to him, and he learned to listen. He changed and the loving feeling came back, for another 33 years. ';Till death did us part.';





I just got a letter from my daughter and she said he is with her everyday. I am happy but jealous at the same time.
absolutely....i am not even attracted to him at all in any way....when i look at him i can't even see what i ever saw in him...it has gotten to the point where everything he does bugs me....we have been together for 20 years.....and it has been really miserable....i guess people just grow apart....i think what the lady said about all the little hurts add up over time...some things you just don't really get over.
No i have never lost that loving feeling for my husband in fact my love for him has grown more and more over the yrs.
yea i lost it.. the day he started looking for other fems to talk to. it went away permanently. he tries to hold and kiss me but i just dont let him anymore.
now that I know he had sex with a hooker I am losing it, after 24 yrs. I stay in prayer. I want to be strong but, that was the ultimate betrayal.
I did with my first husband. Noticed I said first. We are divorced because the loving feeling didn't come back.
No I've never lost it... of course there are times when you get upset or angry with your spouse... but that doesn't mean you don't love them anymore..
yes sometimes when we argue and at times at night when going to sleep.
It's like indigestion , it comes and goes !
23 years, never lost it never will
Yes. No plans of getting it back. I am happier now.
We dont loose it, untill v loose faith,