Did ur spouse push u before during a fight?Was it the beginning of abuse?

Even thou he apologized and u pushed him back and that was because u were yelling at him.


personal experiences pls.


I have to say this the1st time,he was so mad,and i called him nasty names.


If it's the start then, what to do to stop this behavior from developing in to worse?


we have been married 2 yrs now.Did ur spouse push u before during a fight?Was it the beginning of abuse?
me and my husband got into a fight and he pushed me and slammed a door in my face, apologized, and we haven't had a problem since. sometimes people do lose their cool but do watch for future similar actions! but my husband is not abusive and it was a one time thingDid ur spouse push u before during a fight?Was it the beginning of abuse?
I think it might be the start to something that could get worse... I was in the same position with a boyfriend who started out grabbing me which developed into a push and eventually a bruised arm and wrist. If it's the first time maybe you should talk to him about it, but if it's happened before you should leave before it gets any worse...
My husband and I have got into many fights, but he has never even considered touching me. Pushing can be the beginning of abuse. Make it known and very clear that he is not to touch you when he's mad. When someone pushes you when they are really mad then it is a definitely aggression and can lead to abuse. Please talk to him about this in a kind, loving way but be careful. If he ever hits you (even once) leave, leave, leave. You also shouldn't be calling him names- this doesn't fix anything and is in fact emotional abuse. If you don't want to be the abused do not be an abuser!
I've been with my husband for about 10 years...3 yrs married... we have had our ups and downs in which he has pushed me and grabbed me and I have slapped him and pushed him... the first 4 yrs were actually pretty rough, but once he and I had an understanding of the damage that it causes our relationship we were able to not put our hands on each other ever again!!!





You should always watch his behavior and keep an eye out for any worse behavior, but in all honesty I think that all relationships go through pushing, shoving and slapping (from the woman!!!) and are able to still flourish a beautiful relationship through that struggle. God Bless you both!
YOU GUYS ARE S AND M FOLKS? YOU REALLY WANT TO BE CALLING NASTY NAMES, THE MAKING UP IS WHAT YOU SEEK, THE LOVE IS SO MUCH MORE INTENSE, SEEK HELP, COUNCILING, IT IS A BIG DELUSION TO LIVE IN THIS PHONY RELATIONSHIIP FIND OUT WHY YOU ARE ABUSIVE, CALLING NAMES, ? RETALIATING LIKEFOR LIKE, SEEK HELP, PROFESSIONAL
you may be lucky, i know heaps of guys who slapped their wives around but never touched them again. So dont do anything drastic at this point of time especially if you pushed him and he let you get away with that.
If you don't want to be pushed by your husband you should learn how to perform better in bed.
Get in the kitchen.


And make him a sandwich.
mine pushed me 1st....and out of a 13 yr marriage, it got more violent approx. 1/2 dozen times....we r now divorced. hope that helped.
my gf pushed it wayyyyyyy tooo faarrr. then i just took it like nothing


just by staring at her and telling myself how pretty she is and not to crack.
if it was a one time fling dont worry about it,kay?


but if its like the 3rd or 4th time get some counlsling it wouldnt hurt