What are you supposed to do when your spouse goes out all night, morning, and day?

You don't know how to get to where the spouse is, the spouse is possibly drinking, sleeping, or hung over, and you have a child to take care of.What are you supposed to do when your spouse goes out all night, morning, and day?
Sit down and have a talk with the spouse find out whats going on. Tell the spouse how you feel about what is going on, and what the consequences are for the household, for the children, for you.





If the spouse doesn't stop, then you can consider throwing the spouse out, and divorce.What are you supposed to do when your spouse goes out all night, morning, and day?
';Five Love Languages';


';Love and Respect';


';His Needs Her Needs';


Get these books, analyze the problem, work the solution...


Don't Give up, Marriage is a team effort but when there is a problem sometimes one has to make the marriage work by finding out what the problem is and working for a solution until the other one finally understands... Patience, Time, and Prayer. You may also was to go get ';The Love Dare'; This is an excellent tool for healing marriages and I recommend you get it first, and do the dare while you are reading the other three...
pray about it. That is defiantly a vary difficult situation. Then Commit him to stop and if he doesn't then you need to leave him. you do not want that influence on your kids.





this may help, go to www.mormon.org this has helped me with many difficult situations. and I just watched a movie recently you may want to watch it is called '; Riding in Cars with Boys';


good luck


you may email me if you have any other questions
awwhh im realli sorry :( if i were you, tell him to either show some help or support or kick his a** to the curb and tell em' on the way to take a hike! hope this helps, stay strong, anymore questions


just ask :) -laura
he is where he wants to be,


where are you ?


do you love him this much to ask?
Seems you got a Free Pass!!!! Besides you shouldn't worry about drinking as much as you should be worried about him having an affair; or something even worse, an affair with another man!!! That would suck.
Dear Gottaknow.... perhaps your question would get a better response if you put it in the ';Family, marriage relationship'; category.
Ya best be praying, and praying blessings over them, then turn them over to God, and let God go to work on them.
Your hubby needs to be accountable to you or face losing you.





He's an idiot to risk that.
Take on a new man for your needs (optional), change the locks, hire a lawyer and get a divorce (mandatory).





Yup. That simple.
D-I-V-O-R-C-E
Go to court and get child support. He won't have as many funds to drink with.
Don't worry, he's not drinking much. That sounds like he has another woman.
There's this program called ';Cheaters';. Maybe they can do some footwork for you.
Dump him and go home to mother.
Buy a gun and shoot the bastard when he shows up.
etheth
divorce the child care from that will help more then he is now.
Figure out why he doesn't want to be at home. I'm sure you can figure it out.
divorce


of course





he's obviously cheating on you, dump his ***
Haha, you have AIDS.
Lock him in his cage more often. That's what I do.
File for a divorce.
take care of your damn kid!





if he's not around, you just gonna let the kid starve?!?!





yeesh.
move out





That is what I would do at least.





You would need to pray about it.
he obviously has no respect for you or the child...
cook his dinner he's been busy
kick his *** to the curb
isn't that when you throw his stuff out in the driveway?
Been there and done that...... to involved to go into on here.... contact me IF you want or feel the need..... married 33 years...... go in peace..... God bless