Wednesday, November 23, 2011

Is there a diff between a spouse going out with friends, and a spouse going out with a Single newly divorced?

Is there a diff between a spouse going bar hopping with friends that they work with (more then half married ), and a spouse going bar hopping with a Single newly divorced friend of the same sex?Is there a diff between a spouse going out with friends, and a spouse going out with a Single newly divorced?
I think it's 6 of one 1/2 dozen of the other. As long as you know your spouse, you know if it really does matter or not. If one is going to ';get in trouble';, it doesn't matter who they go out with. They're either going to be true to you or they aren't. Doesn't honestly matter who they are out with. Trust is the whole key to your question AND answer. Best to you...:)Is there a diff between a spouse going out with friends, and a spouse going out with a Single newly divorced?
yes





when married couples take the initive to hang out with other happily married people, then they are encouraged by association to stay happily married.


when you see another married man spending quality time with his wife, this reminds you that you should be doing the same





when married couples allow themselves to hang out with single, divorced, or adulterous married people, then they start to think of the dating scene as being not so bad. They become encouraged by associate to either cheat or divorce; and even if they never give in to these thoughts, it can still weaken the marriage.





*I encourage my husband to hang out with all of his friends, single and married, however my husband is a good man with a strong sense of self. Other men, weaker men who are more likely to run with the pack, can not be trusted the way that my husband can be. *
Friends are friends if they are married or not. She is right. You going out with friends and her going out with friends is the same thing. You are having a problem because her friend is newly divorced. What does that have to do with your wife? Her friend is not going to make her or stop her from doing anything that she wants to do.
I do not understand your concern. As long as you have trust, it does not matter whom she goes out with. With out trust, then you have lots of problem, more than can be answered in this forum.
well... the newly divorced friend probably just needs a wingwoman... and its the same sex... so how could she be cheating? Maybe your wife is just trying to be a good friend?
Sometimes they might play the wingman so their friend can pull but that should be about it.
No not of the same sex
as long as you trust your better half there should be no problem.
are you sure she is doing what she says or is she just saying she is with her friends and is really with boyfriends
I fail to see the problem. You go out, she goes out. Seems fair enough to me.
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