Can I be a full-time student and still sponsor my spouse to Canada?

I am in 1st year university. I am waiting for my husband to come to Canada, yes we have been waiting for a while now. In the meantime, life goes on. I am wondering if I have made a bad choice, and if they will be asking me again for proof of income. Is going to school going to negatively affect our case? And if so, what can I do, in case I need to argue my choice to better myself through education, hence for my family.Can I be a full-time student and still sponsor my spouse to Canada?
that's tough... contact the onsulate to find out the details. good luck!Can I be a full-time student and still sponsor my spouse to Canada?
yes, it is legal for him to come on a dependent visa but it might be difficult. As it is, you may be having a difficult time with your finances and it's not practical to expect that a ';student'; sponsors her spouse. However, if you do have the required finances for the time duration of your study, you can utilize the help of a good consultancy to expedite the visa process.





It is better if your husband comes to Canada by some specialized skills on a work visa.

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How to settle in Calgary if I reach first time with spouse and child ?

If reach firt time with my spouse and child.Where I cant rent reasonable house / Can I get job in hospitality industry ? My wife has office work experience. Can she get job ? Is it more easy to settle here than Toronto ? Pls helpHow to settle in Calgary if I reach first time with spouse and child ?
calgary is a great place to live! Jobs are every where! less than a 1% unemployemnet rate however homes are expensive and hard to come by so be cautious!

Is it okay NOT to date after the death of a spouse if you have small children? THOUGHTS?

I am just a little freaked because there are so many freaks and pedophiles these days, I do not want to date until my children are like 18 years old. Is this harmful to them do you think? Am I cheating them of having the other ';parent';? I don't think I am, but I have been accused of that. What are your thoughts?Is it okay NOT to date after the death of a spouse if you have small children? THOUGHTS?
I don't think you are cheating your children of another parent... They know who their father is and just because he's gone no one can replace him.... Sometimes its easier to date when your children are older because they understand better and they are out of the house already.... I do understand how you feel about having strangers around your children.. There is always a risk but i don't see why you can't date casually and not bring your boyfriend by your children until you been invovled for a long period of time and you are completely sure that he is a good guyIs it okay NOT to date after the death of a spouse if you have small children? THOUGHTS?
Wow, you have put yourself in a box, haven't you. All men are freaks and pedophiles and will just be dating you, to get at your children.


Sure their are those kind of people out there, but the percentage of them is really tiny, in the male population.


No one says you have to introduced some guy you are dating to your children on the first date or so. Go out on dates, some will be great, while other's not so much. But that's what dating is all about, finding out if the two of you make a good match.


You can tell your kids you are dating, and your date, that you have children. Who knows, he may have children of his own.


When you find the right guy, and have been with him for a while, then you can bring the kids into the mix.


Just don't cut yourself off, from a social life, you won't be happy, and your children wont be either.
I was widowed when my daughter was 7 in 1st grade. I understand the worry about protecting your children. Whether to date or not depends on if YOU are ready. As long as you act responsibly they will be okay.





You can be a great parent alone or with another mate. I didn't start dating till my daughter was in 7th grade, not because of her but simply because it took me that long to be ready and to find someone of quality that I was willing to date. Then I saw it as a way to provide a good role model for her to watch. (that was very sobering) He was the only one I dated after losing my first husband. We were married after my daughters freshman year.





Hope that helps. It can be a good life for you and your kids alone or with a step-parent. Remember better to be alone than to just settle, which is worse by far!
you shouldnt rush in to dating people just yet, they'll think that you forgotten the other person and hate you a lot. and its best to wait till ur kids are at least teenagers or so so they are old enough to understand whats goin on and be sure to choose that person you are dating very carefully.
Don't rush, but its still better then being single and miserable.
It was never a rule you had to date





Its up to you and no one else.

Is it immoral to stay with a spouse who cheats? I can't find that passage in the bible.?

I've found stuff about family and forgiveness.





Maybe I'm looking in the wrong pages?Is it immoral to stay with a spouse who cheats? I can't find that passage in the bible.?
No, it is not immoral. The cheating spouse is immoral, not the one sticking to his/her wedding vows.Is it immoral to stay with a spouse who cheats? I can't find that passage in the bible.?
No, it just isn't wise.
this is a tough one, its not immoral, it is stupidity.
I think it takes more strength and considerable bravery to stay with someone who cheats. It shows the person can stick with and work through flawed systems. It shows dedication to long term commitments.





If they were humiliated in public, and still stay with the person, it shows they feel strongly about things other than what other people think of them. It shows they can take the punches and still keep up the good fight.





Maybe they truly love the person, despite their flaws. After all, if you've been with someone for decades, you know their good points as well as their bad. No one's perfect. Maybe people who cheat or exaggerate their accomplishments have superior qualities in other areas. That's usually how these things work. Look at Benjamin Franklin.





And, dare I say it, if you have that kind of dedication to your not-perfect spouse, you could fairly be thought of as potentially having that kind of dedication to your not-perfect country. You stick with it...not damn it.





(queue Tammy Wynnette ';Stand by your Land....';)
I would say that you don't even have a bible. Like most people who like to pick and choose WHAT THEY HAVE is in the bible if you are true and want the knowledge to the question the person who said it best read the TEN commandments the words COVET and ADULTERY will blind you .
Yes . it is in there , Jesus says that he would rather you not divorce but (adultery) this is the only way out of a marriage other than death, that is acceptable.in God's eyes.
i know the bible does teach that if your spouse does cheat..then dump them:)..but i dont think it would be immoral to stay with the person..just dumb
Sure, some things are more important than sharing a ......
There is nothing in the Bible that says that, in the old or new testament. I recommend you read Hosea that should tell you everything you need to know.
Well, if we're going by biblical standards, the adulterer will probably be stoned to death, thereby releiving the spouse the worry of whether to stay together or split up.





That is of course if the adulterer is a woman, if it's a man, it's not too big of a deal.





Divorce is shunned more in the Bible than male infidelity.





SO......My final answer is that if the man's a cheater, God wants you to stay together and deal with it.





If the woman is the cheater, sorry lady.....and the man gets to start shopping around for a new wife, after he burries the old one.
Only if your Husband is President and you are planning to run for President in the future.
not in itself;


however if a spouse's cheating significantly and pervasively contributes to a betrayed spouses alienation from their own relationship with and potential for Good, then their environment is a stumbling block and they should remove themselves from it;


I do not know enough about the particular situation I assume you are referring to to offer an opinion---
Remember the 10 Commandments.





Thou shalt not commit adultery.
Not immoral, just stupid. I divorced my first wife after she cheated on me.
YOU can stay with a spouse who cheats and ask for your forgivness.
no
Wrong book all together. look in the DNC little Red Mao cookbook.
I know your point. So be straight!
Do you really believe that most of these politicians that are having all of these affairs are Bible readers?
Check the index.
No ... Does ANY politician remember what The 10 Commandments ARE ??





WE MUST REMEMBER ...





WE NEED to make sure that EVERY man, woman, and child, KNOW how ANTI-AMERICAN Obama and his Reverend(S) ARE !!!





Would a CONTINUAL 20 years of ';second hand smoke'; have a negative affect on the other people in the area ??





Would a CONTINUAL 20 years of ';Anti-American Preachings'; have a negative affect on the other people in the area ??





John F. Kennedy, a Democrat, was sworn in as the 35th President of THE United States of America, at noon on January 20, 1961. In his inaugural address he spoke of the NEED for ALL Americans to be ACTIVE CITIZENS, famously saying, ';Ask not what your country can do for you; ask what you can do for your country.';





Please NOTICE that it said DEMOCRAT - NOT Socialist and / or Communist Democrat !!





It means this country is only as strong as the people in it. It means get off your *** and do something!!!


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The Democratic Elite make the rules and then they change them for their convenience !!





The Elite Democrats feel like THEY know better than YOU who would be the best person to run the country !!!





By the People and For the People !!!


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';The bible says what God has put together, let no man put asunder';. The marriage vows state ';for better or worse, for richer or poorer, in sickness %26amp; in health, till death do us part';. Jesus also said to forgive the trasspasses of others. How many times? 70x7. Hillary was doing all of those things, just as many spouses have done since time immemorial. It takes a strong %26amp; forgiving person to forgive %26amp; work things out. It's much easier to leave, and what guarantee do you have that the next time it'll be better?
The entire ';Christian Right'; must have forgotten what Jesus said when asked how many times should I forgive those that tresspass against me 7?


he said no


70 times 7
i think it's only immoral if you start becoming swingers and swapping spouses and stuff like that. Then that's consensual cheating and that's kind of immoral. Oh yeah I love that stuff about family and forgiveness too.

How do you collect child support is the person doesn't work but the spouse does in VA?

You can't collect support from the other parent's spouse.... it's the parent's responsibility to pay their own child support obligations. If the parent isn't working then you can't collect, however, arrearages will still accumulate. They are still obligated to pay support so if your case isn't being managed by child support enforcement, I would urge you to contact your local child support office and get things set up for them to handle your case. If the parent starts working or needs to be located, they can help you with that. They will also keep track of arrearages and if he is owed any money (like from state/federal taxes), then they can arrange for his refunds to be taken to pay his child support arrearages.How do you collect child support is the person doesn't work but the spouse does in VA?
LoL.. what a world we'd live in if this were something obtainable..!!





Your child's parent's spouse is NOT responsible for paying child support for the child you two had together.. LMAO!!





Thats the most ridiculous thing I've heard so far regarding child support!


And I've heard and experienced a lot--including my husband STILL paying support for his 22 yr old daughter via court order.. not to mention we put her threw college, then university.. oh and did I mention the daughter works as well!! AND YES this order was enforced by a judge!





So.. sometimes EXTREMELY unfair things/arrangments happen when it comes to child support but I HIGHLY HIGHLY HIGHLY doubt your ex's new partner will somehow be found responsible for and ordered to support for your child..





It'd be a cold in hell let me tell you if my hubbys ex tried to pull something like that on me!!





How do you collect child support is the person doesn't work but the spouse does in VA?
File for child support, get your order. Come tax time, their joint return goes straight to your baby.





ADD: You're all wrong people!! You could give me a thumbs down all you want, but I filed for child support a few years ago, he's not working, but this year I got a big check from the IRS. Their joint return came straight to me. Don't get mad cuz you married a dead beat!!
it wont matter about the spouses income they wont even consider that........job or no job the non custodial parent will still have to pay
The spouse isn't responsible for the child support. So, there is no way to collect it that way.
talk to a lawyer or local welfare agency. They can answer better

What nickname(s) have you given your spouse/significant other over the years?

Do they like the nickname(s) or resent them?What nickname(s) have you given your spouse/significant other over the years?
It depends who is around when I refer to him. Around the grand kids, I'll refer to him as ';grandpa';. When we are with friends and family, I'll usually call him by his given name. When were alone around the house, I'll call him ';sweetie';. When I'm mad at him, I'll call him . . . well, I guess we really don't need to go there! :) And he likes most of the nicknames I use.What nickname(s) have you given your spouse/significant other over the years?
we have a weird history of ever-chaning pet-names that have been evolving for 10 years. It started as baby but has gone thru changes like buh, boo, beboo with one being primary at any given time. The name also undergoes changes like in Germany, ';das boo.'; or in spain, ';buito';....yeah...we get a kick out of it.





And we NEVER use each other's first names.
My husband is Rambo.





A few years ago, 3 idiots attempted to steal his car in the grocery store parking lot and one was armed. He disabled the weapon, kicked it under the car, hospitalized 2 of them and the 3rd ran away.


Our neighbor who saw the whole thing compared him to Rambo, and the name stuck. He is a retired Army Ranger and hasn't lost a single skill.





And yes, he hates it.
i call him sweetie.this is very odd,as i tended to call my other boyfriends,by their last name,as in ';hey,wagner!'; but from the moment i met my husband-to-be,i had the weirdest urge to call him ';sweetie';.i later found out he took this as a ';sign';,because his deceased mother always called him ';sweetie'; from his earliest childhood till the day she died.she had 6 other children,but he was always the only one she called that perticular nickname.needless to say,i married my sweetie,he loves hearing his life-long nickname-and i am greatful if my mother in lwas spirit really did make me call him that!
He had the nickname, ';Lucky'; when I met him. (He had won a new car in Boot Camp, when he was 17.)





I didn't like his given name so Lucky stayed for 43 years.





He called me ';Bridgit'; Or Dahlin'. I guess because I am irish, and did not like my given name.
Nothing sweet I can tell you that. He is a very serious person 95 percent of the time. Nothing playful about him. We are not compatible in any thing. I don't mind, after 40 years I still go my own way and enjoy life. Poppy
I call my husband my Chia pet. He's a pretty hairy guy and it seems he grows a 5:00 shadow within minutes of shaving. He doesn't seem to resent it. It's all in fun.
Depends on the day.Could vary from Honey to A$$hole. Usually he doesnt resent them. He knows if he's been good or bad and is willing to deal with the results.
I call him ';dearie'; or, in some instances ';Mr. Excitement.'; He's VERY predictable.
My husband and I started calling each other Dear early in our marriage as a joke. Then, after time it became a real term of endearment for us both. I miss those years.
Bear. Sometimes it's Boo-Bear. He calls me Little Bear and I call him Big Bear. He likes his nickname. Gosh, I love that man!!
Actually, none.








Have a Seasoned day.
I have always called him Sweetie. He even looks sweet, and is certainly a sweet guy! At least to me.
I call him ';sweetie'; or ';honey'; all the time, even when I'm mad at him.
I would never call him sugar bear sweety pie in front of anyone.
jackie, I do not think I am allowed to use those name on here and yes resentment could be a word he would use.
Always been Punkin, 47 years.
Beau- as in my beau. Likes it
When we started dating he was my ';Boy Toy'; and he still is after all these years.
Gramps.
My little nest of vipers!
Thump er, because my heart goes thump, thump.

Military spouse stationed overseas wanting to go home for the holidays?

my husband is getting deployed in a month, and i want to go home for the holidays (very early nov to late dec) with our 8/9 month old son (how old he will be when traveling). I'm wanting to find the cheapest, and the most cooperative airline to help me since most layovers i'm comming across are about an hour. This will be my second time flying, our son's first. and i'm already a nervous wreck because of that and it being a good 11+ hour flight.





I'm really looking for discounts or trying to travel space a but i've had no luck at finding space a flights.





fyi, my only chice to fly out of is yokota and naritaMilitary spouse stationed overseas wanting to go home for the holidays?
No. 1 Travel has really good offers from Japan, and they do bookings in English. http://www.no1-travel.com/





Compare here to see if military discount is cheaper: http://www.norfolkairport.com/ -- This airport website is the only source I know that lets you check for military discounts on flights--regardless of where you're starting from or going to.





Compare all of them to http://www.bookingbuddy.com just to be sure you've got the absolute best offer.





A 1 hour connection is pretty good for international flights; less than that, and you might not make it because connecting airports are usually massive.Military spouse stationed overseas wanting to go home for the holidays?
here are some really good discount flight websites, hope they help you for your journey.





http://www.allcheapfares.com/





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http://www.bt-store.com/flights/default.鈥?/a>





http://www.cheapfares.com/





http://www.ultimatefares.com/





some of these may not let you purchase any tickets, because you are not in the united states, but i would think quite a few would work. they are the best discount flight websites ive seen. you may want to check orbitz.com. i wish the very best for you and your family.
Call American Airlines directly and ask for their military discount. We're stationed in the UK and I saved over $200 by doing this. A friend here saved almost $1000. There is a $10 phone booking charge but it was worth it!





Have a great time visiting your family! Praying that your husband stays safe. Best wishes!
Can the military provide you with a flight home? I know my husband used to talk about doing so (he was in Navy Aviaiton) but I don't know if dependents can do it. Also go to his command, they may be able to help you find cheap, convenient flights home. Good Luck, and wish your husband the same, I appreciate what he is doing for our country, and you too!!

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Anyone know how to fall asleep when spouse snores really loud, need help desperately?!?

I have trouble falling asleep every single night. Spouse is able to fall asleep alot faster than I can. The snoring makes it extra hard so I have to resort to tylenol Pm every single night.


Any suggestions would be great.Anyone know how to fall asleep when spouse snores really loud, need help desperately?!?
First of all, you should talk to your spouse about seeing a doctor. He could be suffering from sleep apnea; it usually causes extremely loud snoring and falling asleep rather quickly.


I have the same problem and that is the case. What I usually do is either use earplugs (which work fantastically) or exactly what you're doing, only instead try SleepMD which is safer and natural.


Good luck!Anyone know how to fall asleep when spouse snores really loud, need help desperately?!?
Ear plugs for you? Or maybe suggest that your spouse invest in ';Breathe-Right'; product... They have sprays and these band-aid looking things for your nose, available OTC in any grocery store or pharmacy. If none of that helps, suggest that your spouse go to the doctor, because snoring could actually be causing a much greater problem, such as sleep apnea, or decreases in oxygen levels at night.
Get a Slumber Guard for him.





Don't just look after yourself and get ear plugs - cos it doesn't do anything to stop his snoring - and snoring can gradually impact on his health.
put some ear plugs or sound proof earphones and an ipod listen to music.
cover his head with a pillow until he stops breathing

Where can i get information on options about what i have to do to not lose my house in separation with spouse?

usually you have to buy him out of his share of the equity or assume his share of the debt.

When you get PO'd at your spouse/mate, what song plays in your head?

Mine is usually something by Guns 'n Roses.


What song plays through your head when you and your other do battle?When you get PO'd at your spouse/mate, what song plays in your head?
Crazy Train - OzzyWhen you get PO'd at your spouse/mate, what song plays in your head?
Usually either ';One Less Set of Footsteps'; or ';Lover's Cross'; by Jim Croce, or ';Far Behind'; by Eddie Vedder. Then again, since we often argue about where we live, sometimes its ';I Guess He'd Rather be in Colorado'; by John Denver. (I HATE Illinois.)





But there are children involved, so I've never had the courage to follow through.
It does not happen often.





Usually something from Ozzy or Guns 'n Roses and not ';Axel and Friends'; version.


GNR - UYL 1 Back off B***h or Double Talking Jive.


Ozzy - Most of his music


Also Aerosmith's The Other Side
';you p*ss me off, you f*ckin' jerk';








i believe it is called the rodeo song.
That 90s song by Sita - Jerk.





';You Jerk, You Jerk, you are such a Jerk. There are other words, but they just don't work'; etc...
No song...I just get a picture from the cartoons where my face turns bright red and smoke coming out of my ears and mouth :-)
This one
Whitesnake: Here I Go Again


That song sooooo was written for me.
I don't get songs when I'm Pissed...


Music is way to personal for me..


I'm a professional musician I can't relate


that to Anger...
I ususally get PO'd when he does something stupid, so it's always Robert Palmer singing ';the lights are on (boom boom), but you're not home (boom boom)....';
Interesting question ! Hmm.... . Katy Perry hot n cold . Yeah!
';One of My Turns,'; by Pink Floyd:





I feel


Cold as a razor blade


Tight as a tourniquet


Dry as a funeral drum
Fighter by Christina Aguilera
Yeah right , The ';wind and the withering'; Genesis ...,against your back out the airplane with some OTHER blonde ! You ';broke my honkey tonk'; heart !
It all depends on how much she pushes the envelope. It can range from ';Stop in the Name of Love'; to ';Aqua Lung.';
Wow., I don't get P.O that much.. I get songs in my head when I'm showering. that's about it





today is was '; lowrider';
';You can't always get what you want'; or


';With or Without You';
definitely G%26amp;R.
Die Mother-fuh-ka die...(from Office Space Movie...)
Love is a battlefield, Pat Benatar
Closer by Nine Inch Nails or Comfortably Numb by Pink Floyd
Come Sail Away, by Styx...
Nights in White Satin, Moody Blues.
Drivers Seat: Sniff and the Tears.
That never happens to me when I'm mad.
G%26amp;R's I use to love her but i had to kill her...
Doin da Butt
something by G%26amp;R


or skid rows


Get The F**K out
just like you by three days grace
You're a JERK. I'm not sure who sings it, but OMG I hear that over and over in my head.
baby come back!

How many times have you and your spouse made love in the last 90 days?

If it was less than 10 and they always used excuses legit or not would you be upset?How many times have you and your spouse made love in the last 90 days?
What is crazy to me is hearing about all the ladies whose husbands are neglecting them. Fellas, STEP UP!!!





Life gets busy, but my wife and I probably average 2-3 times weekly, so over 90 days, probably around 25-30.How many times have you and your spouse made love in the last 90 days?
FER FER must have forgotten that this is the internet and everything is pretty much anonymous!!





My wife and I have had sex exactly 1 time in the last 120 days and I am mad as hell about it. Whenever I ';ask'; for sex I get turned down. There is always an excuse. The stars and planets must align for love making to commence at my house. I have tried to see what the probelm is, I have talked to her about and she thinks I am ';blaming'; her for the problem, which I am not. I just want to know what I can do to make her happy.


The funny thing about it is that all is well in other areas of our life. I love her and she loves me. We both trust each other and we both do our ';roles'; in the family well.



many times dont know a number.





i had to have a couple of stitches on one side of my bits 8 days a go which wasnt done correctly at childbirth 6 months ago. since then had no sex (it has been 9 days) we are doing 69 most nights though cause that wont harm the stitches cause he sticks to the clit. If I can still carry on doing stuff after having stitches in my bits a week ago, i dont think there is anything that would stop me lol!
Like I keep count! My husband used to count when we first started having sex (which I thought was so goofy), but lost count after the first week (lucky me). In the last 90 days it was certainly more than 10. Less than 10 in 90 days? I think I'd go nuts!
About 25 times,,,usually twice a week, sometimes once a week, occasionally 3 times a week.!! Well, a little upset on less than 10, period, out of town, etc,,,,,
personally I've lost count. I would have to say at 3-4 times a week probably 50-60.





to Ferfer: Why did you even bother putting your two cents in?
Hmmm...I think we've had sex 3-4 times in 90 days.





Do I wish it were more often? Heck yes!





But he's content to sit on the couch and play PlayStation until he falls asleep every night.





Yay for me.
hey fer fer, this is like anonymous. I'm pretty sure fer fer isn't your real name just like Juggman isn't my real name...although it's a pretty accurate description.





Too many to count.
oh geeez, I dunno.....Im gonna estimate about 8-10 times, past 90 days.






I think we've skipped a total of 7 days in the last 90. Just because he was too tired or one of us was sick. But we're newly weds so we make love at least once everyday.
we have sex about 4-5 times a week. but thats us, different people have different needs.
more than 10, but less than 90! i don't know exactly. we usually average 3 times a week.
My husband and i have made love about 75 times in the last 90 days.
Not enough! All the time but I'm greedy!
0 A BIG GOOSE EGG!! I'D DO IT 3 TIMES A DAY TILL I WAS TIRED OF IT BUT THE HUSABND ISNT INTERESTED...


YAY ME
WE HAE SEX 4 TIMES A DAY
none of your buisness, and anyone who answers has NO respect for their wife.
too many to count!!
None... LOL we dont have a good sex life. We are haveing marital problems LOL
We do it constantly. I alwys make myself available to him. That is my job!

Applying for a Green card for my spouse?

I don't have enough money to file the I-130 and I-485 together for my husband. Can I file the I-130 first and file the I-485 at a later date?Applying for a Green card for my spouse?
Ask your question over at www.immigrate2us.net at their forum. I think I remember reading about people in your situation on there. Good luck and wish you best!Applying for a Green card for my spouse?
If you're having a hard time scrounging up the money to pay for the forms to file, you might want to see if you meet the minimum poverty income level in order to get it approved. If your husband has the potential to become a public charge your petition will be denied.
You have to file I-130 first because you never know if your petition for your husband will be approved. Once its granted, that's the only time you can file for I-485.
my friend one time colored this documented card green and submitted it in to them.

My spouse of 24 years is divorcing me. He owns 3 corporations in heavy debt.Will have to pay this?

He has owned these corporations for about 5-6 years. My name is not on the articles of incorporation, but will I be held responsible for the debt in a community property state? I would have no ablity to pay these debts back. Should I declare bankruptcy to protect myself? The divorce will be ugly and I do not have the money to hire a lawyer to protect my interests.


Thank YouMy spouse of 24 years is divorcing me. He owns 3 corporations in heavy debt.Will have to pay this?
Get a lawyer. A reputable lawyer will talk with you free of charge about the basics of your situation. If you decide to have that lawyer represent you, then they usually work with you to accept a small retainer up-front and pay off the total bill over time or out of the divorce settlement. If your husband is the one seeking the divorce, he will probably try to get as much for himself with no concern for you. And he probably already has a lawyer. Get a lawyer and let that lawyer negotiate with your husband's lawyer. The important thing for you to understand is that your lawyer will represent YOUR interests, plus the lawyer has all the insights into divorce and corporate law, and can best argue in your favor. A friend of mine had to deal with her husband's bankruptcy over many years .... her name was never on his papers of incorporation, so she was never liable for his indebtedness. Again, a lawyer is the best person to advise you on what the law says and how to proceed with a divorce. The worst thing you can do is to try and handle this on your own. Don't let your husband talk you out of getting a lawyer and don't worry about your lack of funds to retain a lawyer. Get a lawyer as soon as possible.My spouse of 24 years is divorcing me. He owns 3 corporations in heavy debt.Will have to pay this?
As long as you do not ask for a partial owner ship to be bought out in the divorce, then no. At least not in our state.


Look in your phone book for a lawyer referral service, most times the lawyers listed will give you 15 or 20 minutes for a nominal fee, our is $20.00 for 15 minutes.


Take a pen and paper take notes and take a list of questions so you don't forget any, they can at least advise you on protecting yourself.


A girl friend had the same thing happen after 23 years of marriage, she let her husband keep the business, so she did not have the responsibility to pay off the debts, but he still had to pay her alimony ( a surprising large amount with no kids at home) He had to pay her for her half of their home, and since he gets a yearly check because he is 1/2 Cherokee Indian, from the Tribal gambling profits, he has to give her a portion of that. And she was caught with his best friend! (he got screwed!)
A coproration is a ';person,'; under the law and is separate and distinct from you and your husband. Unless you are an officer or director of the company you are not responsible for their debts or their actions. This is what is meant when people say they are incorporating so they can limit their liability. The exception to this rule is if there was fraud or other illegal activities associated with this company. If so, then all bets are off and the corporate veil will be pierced and your husband's assets and consequently yours will be exposed.
More than likely you will be held accountable for the debt. You may be able to get out of it in the divorce settlement.





You should qualify for a reduced or free lawyer. Or you can get one, pay a retainer and pay the bill over time (that's what my sister did). You really need a lawyer to look out for your interests or you could get roayally reamed.
You need to hire a lawyer it is important especially if a high amount of debt and money and assets are at hand.





Divorces are like this:





debt and money gets split 50/50





unless specified different

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How long does it take for my spouse to come to the USA from Egypt?

I am a U.S citizen , and planning to get married in Egypt this Summer. I am Planning to do her paper work here in the U.S after i come back. My question is How long would it take for the papers to be finish?? i heard 6 months or 1 year?? any ideas????How long does it take for my spouse to come to the USA from Egypt?
It is not as simple as being able to say it will take X amount of time. There are variables that come into play e.g. the service center that you file the initial petition with (some faster than others), background/security checks (which are done at the service center stage, National Visa Center stage, and the consulate/embassy stage), any documentation or incomplete information that needs to be requested from you, etc etc. Background/security checks can be lengthy depending on the country of the applicant. Once you file the I-130 for your spouse (which leads to the Immigrant Visa) , you also have the option of filing the I-129F (which leads to the K-3). The K-3 can be a faster route but not always. You can find all the documentation etc that you will require as well as guides to help you along the way in the below link.How long does it take for my spouse to come to the USA from Egypt?
12 HOURS
6 months to a year sounds right, probably closer to a year for Egypt as they do more intense FBI checks for countries in the middle east, which can delay approval of visas by months.
About a year.

Can I file I-130 for my spouse 6 weeks in advance before weeding day overseas?

I鈥檓 planning to marry with my Non American girl friend in her country after 6 weeks , so can I start the petition process by filing a Form I-130, 鈥淧etition for Alien Relative in advance ( 6 weeks ) earlier before weeding day , so we can reduce the process period ?Can I file I-130 for my spouse 6 weeks in advance before weeding day overseas?
Ask the people where you are filing the petition only they have the answers!

How do you add an injured spouse form when filing on HR Block's website?

I know I need to file the injured spouse form (Form 8379) with my taxes, but can't figure out how to access it on the website. Can I e-file and submit the form at the same time or do I have to snail mail everything in? I'm not stuck on HR Block - If there's a way to do it with another brand I would consider it...How do you add an injured spouse form when filing on HR Block's website?
You must mail it in. You will have to do it manually. You should be able to get the form on the irs website.

Scandinavian (EU-Associated) looking for Work Permit in EU-Country (UK) for Future Spouse. How does this work?

I am a Scandinavian citizen (EU Associated) with the opportunity to work freely in the United Kingdom, which I will in the November/December. I am asking which is the process me and my spouse must follow, in order for my future spouse to get a work permit in the same country... and the requirements and time constraints to obtain it.Scandinavian (EU-Associated) looking for Work Permit in EU-Country (UK) for Future Spouse. How does this work?
if you are an EEA national you have the right to live and work in any EEA country. Your spouse (whatever their nationality) can join you and also live and work but should make an application for an EEA family permit at their nearest British diplomatic post, before coming to the United Kingdom.Scandinavian (EU-Associated) looking for Work Permit in EU-Country (UK) for Future Spouse. How does this work?
Explain EU associated ? Please .. Are you really a Scandinavian National ?Or someone in quest of ';FREEbe-s


in the UK.---= Looking for Work permit or looking for opportunity to work in UK ? Is she your spouse ? or your Future spouse ?

Has anyone ever cheated on their spouse and NOT regretted it?

I always see people on here saying, ';yeah I cheated and regret it'; but no one ever says they did not regret it. Just wondering.Has anyone ever cheated on their spouse and NOT regretted it?
yes and yes..it was too good to regret itHas anyone ever cheated on their spouse and NOT regretted it?
My ex cheated on me and showed no remorse, until i divorced him and a few years down the line she walked out on him, then he was trying to find me, but at first he regretted nothing not until he was the one hurt and kicked to the curb.
I have never cheated on a boyfriend or my fiance. I love him to much to do that. He's honestly the only person I can see myself with.





If he ever would cheat on me, I would leave him.





My rule is that its just me, or I'm gone.
They may regret it but most do it again anyway just to regret it all over again.
I'm sure there are people that think the promise to love and cherish their spouse until their death means nothing.





They are not people of their word.
If I found a man to cheat on, and made me happy...I would not regret it.
one time when i did it i didn't regret it cuz he cheated 1st
Yes.
the only way they regret it is if they got caught !
i didnt regret it or i wouldnt have done it in the first place

How much health benefits does your spouse get in the military. ?

My wife is pregnant and I want to know how much I would have to pay for hospital visits and the delivery?How much health benefits does your spouse get in the military. ?
if she is enrolled in Prime not a single red cent.





If she is in Standard and uses Network providers it is completely covered.





if she uses someone not in the Network there will be copays and out of pocket costs. How much health benefits does your spouse get in the military. ?
If you are active duty, then you will pay nothing. You are tricare prime correct? EVERYTHING is free if you are tricare prime UNLESS you go to a hospital that they don't approve of. Also if she wants to do a water birth, then you will have to pay out of pocket as well. So just make sure you go to the doctors that tricare tells you that they accept 100%
Not a penny. One of the many perks of the military.





http://www.milspouse.org/Benefits/Health鈥?/a>
Free of charge! She gets the same health coverage as you, as do your future dependents.





Congrats.
Nada as long as your prime!! You should have her check out HeartsOfOurTroops.com!! She would get alot of hlp there!

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How did you find your spouse or bf and gf?

SInce muslims can date, how did you find your significant other?


how old were you? and how did you guys meet and talk to eachother? on the phone, dinner, familys house?How did you find your spouse or bf and gf?
I met my fiance in High school.


Now im in Med School, Graduating in 3 years.


We just happened to talk, Talking is not haram, then we realized we like each other, then we both told our parents, we started out with phone, IM, and then finally engagement. This went on for about 3 years.





Were getting married in a couple of years :)How did you find your spouse or bf and gf?
We met in Math class lol, we are total nerds, and then he took me out and of course I had my sister and brother with us, well they were smart enough to give us privacy, we talk in class and have lunch together in University restaurants, after about 1 month e figured that we wanna marry , i know it is really fast but honestly neither of us saw why we would wait, we are both into science majors, both have the same interest and share the same view f life, well that is it, now we have been married for about 2 years and a half and we are more in love than we were just fiancees!
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19, he was 27.


We didn't meet in person until our wedding night (3 years October 19th).


He sent me a message and I checked my profile on there and then he was online, saw me online and then initiated private chat with me. We traded pics, e-mai addresses, phone #s, and Yahoo Instant Messenger IDs. 18 days after I became Muslim we got married. Been happily married for almost 3 years and TTC since our wedding night.
I met my spouse at college, we were both non muslim and were just friends. He became muslim and gave me dawah .. we didnt see each other for a long while and we met up again .. He continued to give me dawah and i later converted! We carried on learning together and formed a relationship and last week we go married! :):):):):):)
in science


we hit it off pretty well


wat chemistry eh?





i was 20


he was 22-25





perfect huh?





amber: yeah, das wat u learn in chem in high school and college...how to make chemistry with guys...don't worry...ull learn it too. ;)
I dont care about those stuff. so nope.





@fariha-OMG!! Lool that was soo funny. yeah maannn what chemistry. Lol is that what we learn in hcemi class. im taking it, maybe he wil talk about ';chemistry later? Lol
i was 21 and met him at my place,used to talk on the phone ,it was an arranged marriage


and alhumdulilah love is still there
I have already found him, he just doesn't know it yet lol.
i was twenty-four and i met him at a bar





love at first sight
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How would you tell you spouse/boyfriend that your pregnant?

Just curious, but how would you tell someone that your having a baby? Would you surprise them, or just tell them? I know for most of us we are really really wanting to conceive, so when we finally get that positive PT we are going to be so excited we will explode!!!How would you tell you spouse/boyfriend that your pregnant?
I will buy a lil gift box and put it n and gve to him like its really a presebt but in reality u no what it will b!How would you tell you spouse/boyfriend that your pregnant?
I am planning on surprising my boyfriend.聽 I'm thinking either by buying something for the baby and buying him the expectant father book and then telling him that there is something in the bag for him and let him find it.聽 Or, I am going to take a picture of the positive test and then mix it in with a bunch of other pictures and then have him look through the pictures until he gets to that one. I had a friend who's sister surprised her mom in a really cute way.聽 She found out shortly before Thanksgiving so she made a Thanksgiving card for her mom.聽 On the outside it said ';On this Thanksgiving day there is one thing to be thankful for';聽 and then on the inside she put a picture of the positive test and then wrote ';you are going to be a grandma.';
Whenever I am taking the test, I leave it on the side int he bathroom, my husband then goes and checks after a couple of minutes.





We have come to the agreement that if it is positive then he will tell me, if it's negative then he will throw it out and we won't discuss it.





After a year I am yet to see the result of any test I have taken.
I told my bf on fathers day. he wasn't a father yet so he was really confused when i handed him a wrapped box. when he opened it he was totally shocked to find a positive pregnancy test! he flipped out! in a good way...

Did you live with your spouse before marriage?

If yes, did it really make a difference in your relationship? I ask because my boyfriend was a little freaked out when I first told him I wouldn't live with him before we were married (religious %26amp; family reasons). He's okay with it now, but I'd love to hear what other people think.


Thanks.Did you live with your spouse before marriage?
We lived apart at first. But when the time came and it came closer to the our wedding and we where looking for our house to buy we moved in together. My wife and I dated for a year and half before moving in together. She lived in South Dakota and I live in Minnesota, so we both took turn driving every other weekend back and forth to each other place, also there was children in the picture. We lived together for three months before we got married. I see not problem with couples living together before marriage, that's the time you start putting your special touch on your place, picking out furniture together, getting use to each others work hours, sleeping patterns and making plans for the rest of your lives. Don't forgot to make time for yourselves to be very happy.

What do you provide or give to your spouse, or your spouse to you, that nobody else can/does?

What sets your spouse apart from everyone else, what do they do for you that no one else can?





I want to know what makes your spouse so special to you or what you do for your spouse that makes you so special to them?What do you provide or give to your spouse, or your spouse to you, that nobody else can/does?
I can't think of a specific thing that she does that no one else can do. Except for being her. I just love her and I don't love anyone else. That's all there is too it.What do you provide or give to your spouse, or your spouse to you, that nobody else can/does?
didnt u just ask this??? or am i having de ja vu?

Has anyone ever cheated on their spouse and NOT regretted it?

I always see people on here saying, ';yeah I cheated and regret it'; but no one ever says they did not regret it. Just wondering.Has anyone ever cheated on their spouse and NOT regretted it?
yes and yes..it was too good to regret itHas anyone ever cheated on their spouse and NOT regretted it?
My ex cheated on me and showed no remorse, until i divorced him and a few years down the line she walked out on him, then he was trying to find me, but at first he regretted nothing not until he was the one hurt and kicked to the curb.
I have never cheated on a boyfriend or my fiance. I love him to much to do that. He's honestly the only person I can see myself with.





If he ever would cheat on me, I would leave him.





My rule is that its just me, or I'm gone.
They may regret it but most do it again anyway just to regret it all over again.
I'm sure there are people that think the promise to love and cherish their spouse until their death means nothing.





They are not people of their word.
If I found a man to cheat on, and made me happy...I would not regret it.
one time when i did it i didn't regret it cuz he cheated 1st
Yes.
the only way they regret it is if they got caught !
i didnt regret it or i wouldnt have done it in the first place

How much health benefits does your spouse get in the military. ?

My wife is pregnant and I want to know how much I would have to pay for hospital visits and the delivery?How much health benefits does your spouse get in the military. ?
if she is enrolled in Prime not a single red cent.





If she is in Standard and uses Network providers it is completely covered.





if she uses someone not in the Network there will be copays and out of pocket costs. How much health benefits does your spouse get in the military. ?
If you are active duty, then you will pay nothing. You are tricare prime correct? EVERYTHING is free if you are tricare prime UNLESS you go to a hospital that they don't approve of. Also if she wants to do a water birth, then you will have to pay out of pocket as well. So just make sure you go to the doctors that tricare tells you that they accept 100%
Not a penny. One of the many perks of the military.





http://www.milspouse.org/Benefits/Health鈥?/a>
Free of charge! She gets the same health coverage as you, as do your future dependents.





Congrats.
Nada as long as your prime!! You should have her check out HeartsOfOurTroops.com!! She would get alot of hlp there!

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How did you find your spouse or bf and gf?

SInce muslims can date, how did you find your significant other?


how old were you? and how did you guys meet and talk to eachother? on the phone, dinner, familys house?How did you find your spouse or bf and gf?
I met my fiance in High school.


Now im in Med School, Graduating in 3 years.


We just happened to talk, Talking is not haram, then we realized we like each other, then we both told our parents, we started out with phone, IM, and then finally engagement. This went on for about 3 years.





Were getting married in a couple of years :)How did you find your spouse or bf and gf?
We met in Math class lol, we are total nerds, and then he took me out and of course I had my sister and brother with us, well they were smart enough to give us privacy, we talk in class and have lunch together in University restaurants, after about 1 month e figured that we wanna marry , i know it is really fast but honestly neither of us saw why we would wait, we are both into science majors, both have the same interest and share the same view f life, well that is it, now we have been married for about 2 years and a half and we are more in love than we were just fiancees!
www.qiran.com


19, he was 27.


We didn't meet in person until our wedding night (3 years October 19th).


He sent me a message and I checked my profile on there and then he was online, saw me online and then initiated private chat with me. We traded pics, e-mai addresses, phone #s, and Yahoo Instant Messenger IDs. 18 days after I became Muslim we got married. Been happily married for almost 3 years and TTC since our wedding night.
I met my spouse at college, we were both non muslim and were just friends. He became muslim and gave me dawah .. we didnt see each other for a long while and we met up again .. He continued to give me dawah and i later converted! We carried on learning together and formed a relationship and last week we go married! :):):):):):)
in science


we hit it off pretty well


wat chemistry eh?





i was 20


he was 22-25





perfect huh?





amber: yeah, das wat u learn in chem in high school and college...how to make chemistry with guys...don't worry...ull learn it too. ;)
I dont care about those stuff. so nope.





@fariha-OMG!! Lool that was soo funny. yeah maannn what chemistry. Lol is that what we learn in hcemi class. im taking it, maybe he wil talk about ';chemistry later? Lol
i was 21 and met him at my place,used to talk on the phone ,it was an arranged marriage


and alhumdulilah love is still there
I have already found him, he just doesn't know it yet lol.
i was twenty-four and i met him at a bar





love at first sight
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How would you tell you spouse/boyfriend that your pregnant?

Just curious, but how would you tell someone that your having a baby? Would you surprise them, or just tell them? I know for most of us we are really really wanting to conceive, so when we finally get that positive PT we are going to be so excited we will explode!!!How would you tell you spouse/boyfriend that your pregnant?
I will buy a lil gift box and put it n and gve to him like its really a presebt but in reality u no what it will b!How would you tell you spouse/boyfriend that your pregnant?
I am planning on surprising my boyfriend.聽 I'm thinking either by buying something for the baby and buying him the expectant father book and then telling him that there is something in the bag for him and let him find it.聽 Or, I am going to take a picture of the positive test and then mix it in with a bunch of other pictures and then have him look through the pictures until he gets to that one. I had a friend who's sister surprised her mom in a really cute way.聽 She found out shortly before Thanksgiving so she made a Thanksgiving card for her mom.聽 On the outside it said ';On this Thanksgiving day there is one thing to be thankful for';聽 and then on the inside she put a picture of the positive test and then wrote ';you are going to be a grandma.';
Whenever I am taking the test, I leave it on the side int he bathroom, my husband then goes and checks after a couple of minutes.





We have come to the agreement that if it is positive then he will tell me, if it's negative then he will throw it out and we won't discuss it.





After a year I am yet to see the result of any test I have taken.
I told my bf on fathers day. he wasn't a father yet so he was really confused when i handed him a wrapped box. when he opened it he was totally shocked to find a positive pregnancy test! he flipped out! in a good way...

Did you live with your spouse before marriage?

If yes, did it really make a difference in your relationship? I ask because my boyfriend was a little freaked out when I first told him I wouldn't live with him before we were married (religious %26amp; family reasons). He's okay with it now, but I'd love to hear what other people think.


Thanks.Did you live with your spouse before marriage?
We lived apart at first. But when the time came and it came closer to the our wedding and we where looking for our house to buy we moved in together. My wife and I dated for a year and half before moving in together. She lived in South Dakota and I live in Minnesota, so we both took turn driving every other weekend back and forth to each other place, also there was children in the picture. We lived together for three months before we got married. I see not problem with couples living together before marriage, that's the time you start putting your special touch on your place, picking out furniture together, getting use to each others work hours, sleeping patterns and making plans for the rest of your lives. Don't forgot to make time for yourselves to be very happy.

Can someone other than my spouse file adultery against me?

My husband was Deployed for six months and this person has it out to get me and get him to leave me. Can she file adultery against me?Can someone other than my spouse file adultery against me?
Only if you're married to her.Can someone other than my spouse file adultery against me?
Let her. She has no right to do this and it is illegal.





Sue the witch for slander/libel/defamation if she does put in writing her accusation.





Find an attorney who specializes in civil matters and ask him/her about this.
She is not part of your marriage and can file nothing against you. Adultery is very hard to prove when brought up in a military setting. I imagine you are referring to a military situation. Rest easy.

Would you divorce a spouse that wasnt giving sex?

Too little or not often enough are maybe none at all.Is sex a reason to divorce?Would you divorce a spouse that wasnt giving sex?
No, I would go to a cpl therapist. You don't just walk away from a marriage based on not having equal sex drives. There has to be a reason behind the lack of wanting sex. It is Essential to a healthy relationship but not the most important part.Would you divorce a spouse that wasnt giving sex?
tough question cuz of the issue of kids, money, %26amp;%26amp; all that but it would be a HUGE problem. i think sex is important in a relationship and i cant understand why someone who loves you would choose to withold sex if its pleasurable. unless their was a medical reason or they were depressed or something. if there wasn't a good reason i would start to question them %26amp;%26amp; probably suspect they are cheating becus what guy would choose not to have sex. in that case i'd want to leave but i'd try to work it out first.
Maybe. I mean if you need or want it and don't get it from your spouse your just going to find it somewhere else, cheat on and leave your spouse anyhow. What you should do first though is talk to your spouse see why he/she doesn't like it. Maybe they want it as bad but are not good at reading your signs, and giving out there signs. Talk to your spouse communicate. Maybe you need to spice it up a bit. If that don't work then divorce and find someone with your interest.
Women stop responding for these reasons.





1) She feels unattractive


2) She finds you unattractive


3) There is too much energy going into her family and not enough


being given back.





We are really not that complicated. When we are loved we have passion to return. Anytime a man says he is sex-deprived it is a sign of his selfishness. Like a child holding their breath for candy. Seriously sad.
My fiancee has a saying: Sex is only 20% of the relationship, unless you're not getting any...then it's 80%.





I think when two people get married they are making a commitment to make the other person as happy as they can, and having sex and making an effort to make it as interesting and enjoyable as possible is part of the deal. I personally would have difficulty being married to a man who didn't find me sexually appealing.





I think you should try counseling first. Lack of interest in sex can be caused by medical or psychological disorders. Rule those out first. Also, stress is a big sex drive killer. Take all this into consideration before making any decisions.
It happens, but I think that's a reason to talk to your spouse and reinvest in your marriage.





It's the #1 reason men stray and have affairs so it often leads to divorce if nothing is done about it.
It would be for me. I'd try to work through it with them. If it were a medical problem he couldn't help I would try to accept it, but he'd have to be willing to do other things. I don't think I could live without it. A few days is hard to tolerate. I get really crabby.
I would if I thought she was doing it out of spite. But there might be other reasons, such as depression; and if you divorce because you're spouse has become sick then I think you shouldn't expect anyone to stand by you if you get sick.
No because that's no reason to leave the marriage.





Get marriage counseling instead.
YEs....sex...important...you need it...i need it..she needs it..everyone needs it
Yes I would and yes I have. I enjoy making love and it keep a relationship strong.
No, I wouldn't. My marriage isn't based on sex.

I'm married and want to file my taxes joint but spouse not filing can i do that?

If i can how much earned income is that with 3 children?I'm married and want to file my taxes joint but spouse not filing can i do that?
The Earned Income Credit will depend on your income. You must file as Married Filing Jointly to get the Earned Income Credit if you live with your spouse. Even if your spouse does not make enough income that they are required to file income taxes it will be an advantage for your family rather than passing up the Earned Income Credit.I'm married and want to file my taxes joint but spouse not filing can i do that?
i don't understand why your spouse is not filing a tax return. If you file a Joint return then you are both filing a return -- jointly.
You could technically file a return with your spouses name on it without puting any in their income information; however you could be in serious trouble if their income was of a significant amount and you got audited.

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What if you wanted to become a foster parent and your spouse didn't? Would they still allow you to be a foster

parent or not?What if you wanted to become a foster parent and your spouse didn't? Would they still allow you to be a foster
No you both have to go through the classes for foster care and both have to sign off on the paper work. All adults in the home must.





Even if you could it would not be a wise choice as other have statedWhat if you wanted to become a foster parent and your spouse didn't? Would they still allow you to be a foster
I doubt it would be possible. Every adult in the home would have to go through the process of checks and training to make sure they were not a danger to the children in your care, and if your husband was not willing to cooperate, it seems like it would be completely impossible.





Even if it was possible, I don't think it would be a good idea. Foster children need a lot of love and support, and can be a great deal of work. It's a lot for one person to do, and it's a huge change and adjustment for the entire family. I also think it could be very damaging to the children to know that only one parent in the house wants them around, and the other wishes they weren't in your home. Foster children have been through enough stress and trauma without subjecting them to more of it. It's not healthy for any child to be torn between two parents, but knowingly bringing children into a foster home where they're the source of marital conflict seems unwise to the point of being unkind. There's also the concern of your husband resenting them. I just think it would unfairly put the kids in the middle of an incredibly awkward family disagreement, when they are the ones who need to be helped.





You could still do other things to help children in need. You could mentor or tutor an at risk child, volunteer for Big Brothers/Big Sisters or another child-related organization, or if your husband was more on board if it was very temporary, look into providing respite care for children whose fosters parents need a short break.





Without your husband's support, I just don't think foster parenting is going to work.
I really doubt that any reputable agency would. It's not an individual process. Spouses and all children are ';interviewed'; and you get approved to foster as a family Unit. I have heard of cases where everyone wanted to except for one child in the family who made her feelings known to the worker doing the home study and that was the end of that. They were not approved.
Well, both my parents are foster parents, my mom is the main foster parent being that she is the one that get paid as my father main job is being a priest.





However, my parents both have to undergo all the processes it took to become foster parents, even once I turned 19 I had to under criminal record checks and so forth.





Both parents have to agree cause if not it would not be a good environment for any child.
Since everyone in the household is evaluated during the process, I highly doubt that any reputable agency would allow your family to adopt. They're obligation is to the child, and no child should be placed in a family where one of the parents does not want them there. It would be unfair to the child as well as your other children.





Good luck to you.
I highly doubt it.





Besides, why would you want to bring another child into the house when you know your husband doesn't want it? I understand your desire to want to help out foster children, but it is a big change and a big commitment for the entire family.
No, you wouldn't pass the homestudy part. A foster child needs the support from everyone in the family. Maybe once things calm down in you and your husband's life, he will reconsider. Until then, perhaps you could be a CASA worker.
In order to become a foster parent you have to go through countless hours of paperwork, and interviews, home visits, etc. If your husband is not willing to cooperate, I don't see how it would work for you. Good Luck!!
Would they allow it? Yes, depends on the way it is disclosed. Should they allow it? NO. Not in a child's best interest!
I would suspect the rules for that would be the same as adoption...all parties have to be in agreement, or they will not allow it.
guess you have to leave him in order to be a foster mom, some people really only want to take care of their own family i guess they are selfish who really knows we aren't all saints just human.
Bad decision.You do NOT force children on someone who does not want them.they will resent it and the children will suffer.

Do you and your Spouse have a Sunday routine?

We do, Sunday is kind of our day. We watch all the football games (YAY Saints WON!!!) and cook something good that takes a long time. I make cookies or something with my kids, we clean the house while they take naps. My husband calls his dad, I call my best friend. Usually we all stay in pajamas all day and have a fire. I LOVE Sunday.





What's your Sunday routine? What day of the week is your favorite?Do you and your Spouse have a Sunday routine?
That sounds really nice except for the football, no disrespect intended. On Sundays we wake up late, stay in pajamas most of the day ourselves and I make bacon %26amp; eggs for bfast (pretty much the only time we have them all week) and something special for dinner %26amp; dessert. We're trying for children so hopefully one day soon we'll be organizing our weekends around the pitter patter of tiny feet. :)Do you and your Spouse have a Sunday routine?
my 2 teams are the Bears and Steelers... Bears 5 trips to the red zone(last thursday), zero touchdowns. Steelers five trips to the red zone, zero touchdowns.


wtf?





I have regular 9-5 job during the week, and friday/sat nights, i work overnight schedule. I roll in to my house around 9AM, sleep for 3 hours, watch football, and watch more football, and I'm in bed by 5PM (not tonight, gotta watch Brady-Manning bowl) and wake up 6am monday to go work.





my last full day off was sometime in 2008, and my next full day off is memorial day 2010.
lmao....I do not have a Sunday routine, as my husband is deployed. But if he were here, I don't know....it involves cooking cleaning, washing of some clothes, and relaxing.
This is our day to do absolutely nothing except sit on the couch and scratch ourselves.
I am in the playpen with sweet mildred.. Crawl into our secret society
Why,yes we do.We avoid each other Religiously.
SEX ... SEX....SEX.......And Then ex.

What criteria needs to be met to claim spouse as dependent?

I'm wondering what needs to be met to claim my wife as a dependent? Does pregnancy get any sort of tax credit?What criteria needs to be met to claim spouse as dependent?
Your spouse is never your dependent on your tax return.


You can file as married filing jointly (MFJ) or married filing separately. In most cases, it is better to file as MFJ. Read http://taxipay.blogspot.com/2008/02/fili鈥?/a>What criteria needs to be met to claim spouse as dependent?
You cannot claim your spouse as a dependent. You must file married filing joint. Additionally, you may be allowed a deduction for medical expenses for your out of pocket costs for your wife's doctors appointments and other medical costs if you itemize. You however are limited to only deducting the cost of expenses over 7.5% of your AGI.





Once the baby is born, you will be allowed credits such as the Child Tax Credit and possibly the Child and Dependent Care Expenses Credit (which is a credit for paid daycare expenses). Your child would also qualify for an additional dependent on your tax return.
No credit for being pregnant. But the year the child is born, they qualify as a dependent.





Your spouse is not your dependent. You file a joint return. Both of you put your information on it, and you get an personal exemption for each of you.

What are you supposed to do when your spouse goes out all night, morning, and day?

You don't know how to get to where the spouse is, the spouse is possibly drinking, sleeping, or hung over, and you have a child to take care of.What are you supposed to do when your spouse goes out all night, morning, and day?
Sit down and have a talk with the spouse find out whats going on. Tell the spouse how you feel about what is going on, and what the consequences are for the household, for the children, for you.





If the spouse doesn't stop, then you can consider throwing the spouse out, and divorce.What are you supposed to do when your spouse goes out all night, morning, and day?
';Five Love Languages';


';Love and Respect';


';His Needs Her Needs';


Get these books, analyze the problem, work the solution...


Don't Give up, Marriage is a team effort but when there is a problem sometimes one has to make the marriage work by finding out what the problem is and working for a solution until the other one finally understands... Patience, Time, and Prayer. You may also was to go get ';The Love Dare'; This is an excellent tool for healing marriages and I recommend you get it first, and do the dare while you are reading the other three...
pray about it. That is defiantly a vary difficult situation. Then Commit him to stop and if he doesn't then you need to leave him. you do not want that influence on your kids.





this may help, go to www.mormon.org this has helped me with many difficult situations. and I just watched a movie recently you may want to watch it is called '; Riding in Cars with Boys';


good luck


you may email me if you have any other questions
awwhh im realli sorry :( if i were you, tell him to either show some help or support or kick his a** to the curb and tell em' on the way to take a hike! hope this helps, stay strong, anymore questions


just ask :) -laura
he is where he wants to be,


where are you ?


do you love him this much to ask?
Seems you got a Free Pass!!!! Besides you shouldn't worry about drinking as much as you should be worried about him having an affair; or something even worse, an affair with another man!!! That would suck.
Dear Gottaknow.... perhaps your question would get a better response if you put it in the ';Family, marriage relationship'; category.
Ya best be praying, and praying blessings over them, then turn them over to God, and let God go to work on them.
Your hubby needs to be accountable to you or face losing you.





He's an idiot to risk that.
Take on a new man for your needs (optional), change the locks, hire a lawyer and get a divorce (mandatory).





Yup. That simple.
D-I-V-O-R-C-E
Go to court and get child support. He won't have as many funds to drink with.
Don't worry, he's not drinking much. That sounds like he has another woman.
There's this program called ';Cheaters';. Maybe they can do some footwork for you.
Dump him and go home to mother.
Buy a gun and shoot the bastard when he shows up.
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divorce the child care from that will help more then he is now.
Figure out why he doesn't want to be at home. I'm sure you can figure it out.
divorce


of course





he's obviously cheating on you, dump his ***
Haha, you have AIDS.
Lock him in his cage more often. That's what I do.
File for a divorce.
take care of your damn kid!





if he's not around, you just gonna let the kid starve?!?!





yeesh.
move out





That is what I would do at least.





You would need to pray about it.
he obviously has no respect for you or the child...
cook his dinner he's been busy
kick his *** to the curb
isn't that when you throw his stuff out in the driveway?
Been there and done that...... to involved to go into on here.... contact me IF you want or feel the need..... married 33 years...... go in peace..... God bless

How to deal with the death of my spouse, ( without the shrinks )?

I lost my soul mate a little over a year ago. The grief I felt then is as strong today. I'm really not into the 'professionals' unless I could locate one that has experienced it. Any suggestions?? I long to be with him soon.How to deal with the death of my spouse, ( without the shrinks )?
Well, depending on your age and health the ';I long to be with him soon'; is a little concerning. If you feel that you're depressed and not getting over the grief normally then perhaps professional help is exactly what you need. (I'm not into them either..but if I had a serious issue, I'd give it a shot)





Many of us in this section are at an age where our parents are leaving us. It's something we'll all face of course. I know that I hope my surviving parent can grieve, sort things out and then blossom into the new life that they now find themselves in.





I've watched a mother in law become depressed and not live her life to the fullest after the death of my father in law. She has no interest in professional help at all and honestly, I don't think she sees what the rest of us do.





Another thing that you might do is deal with your loss on a spiritual level. Seek out other widows and help each other heal. Help others as much as you can. Imagine what you can accomplish by helping others before your time to be with him again. Imagine him smiling down on everything that you're doing. Women are natural caretakers. Once children are grown and gone and your spouse leaves, shouldn't that be the time that you give back to the world? You've experienced love and a soul mate. Many people have no idea what that's like. See the rest of your life as your gift to others. You have the ability to show someone who's never known love what it feels like. Imagine a sick baby at a hospital who's parents aren't around. What could you give that baby just by holding it? Imagine a shelter for battered women. Imagine the conversation that you have with a woman that proves to her that real love DOES exist and that she can hope again. Imagine the smile you could give a homeless man as you hand him a plate of food. It could be the only smile he's seen that entire day.





Our time here is a gift. You know that now better than any of us. Find a way to honor your soul mate by living each day to the fullest. In helping others, you might find your own peace. Good luck :)How to deal with the death of my spouse, ( without the shrinks )?
I'm so glad I could be of some help to you. Your thank you made me smile (and tear up just a little).I really hope that you can get out there and show the world what you've learned! We need people like you!


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I am so sorry that you lost your soul mate. You have all my love and best wishes for both of your futures as well.





I take comfort in my religion, that reassures me I will be with my family forever in the life after, and I need not be separated from them for long.





If you are not religious, I would suggest finding consolation though the people that knew you both. Loved ones are the shoulders and support everyone needs, and I would highly suggest looking to them for your comfort. Also, don't be afraid to dwell on the past, look back on your memories with him fondly, and reminisce about the love you shared. But also look to your present and future, and make sure you enjoy what you have. Take up a hobby you never thought you could before, or go on a trip to see the world and new places. Never forget how beautiful life is, the small wonders we see in the smile of a baby, the sun on a meadow, or the miracle of relationships around us. Whenever I feel lonely or sad, I try to see the fantastic gift that this world and life is, and I also try to help others. When I'm not focused on myself, I am happier than any other time.





Again, you have all my love and support if you need it. Best wishes!
During the past year, have you read any self-help books? Grief and loss. These are very intense feelings that don't necessarily leave us. They will subside. If you are unwilling to see a therapist you have to know about the stages of grief, you may be depressed, clinical or situational. How many hours a day do you ruminate about your relationship? To love someone as deeply as you must have loved your soul mate also includes letting go. The feelings, time spent together, the intimacy you shared will always be with you. You can be greatful for the time that you were able to be together. None of us know how long we have with those we love. In a healthy relationship there are two people that were independent. During this relationship there was interdependence. All of us cannot meet our needs all of the time. We rely on eachother. If something happens to one in this relationship there will be feelings like you are expressing now. Having been independent prior to the relationship you know you can do it again.


Try not to place time limits on yourself. We all grieve in different ways.


What do you think the person that you lost would say to you? What would they want for you. The physical nature of the relationship is gone. The emotions of the love you shared wil always remain with you. They are yours, and yours alone. Take care of yourself emotionally. Now is not the time to make any big life changing plans. Love yourself enough to rise to the ocassion and ask for help from professionals.


Take a risk. You can talk to therapists. Find out for yourself if you believe you could have a theraputic relationship with them. If it doesn't feel right interview another. You will find someone that you feel a connection with. God's love
A therapist will help you work through your grief and there's nothing wrong with getting help. Keep in mind that just because you start therapy doesn't mean you have to stick with it if you don't like it or that you can't change therapists if you aren't comfortable. Its concerning that you state you long to soon join your soul-mate. That's a strong indicator of depression. Honestly, if I lost my soul-mate, I would be very depressed and would want someone to help me navigate my sadness. I hope you find solace soon.
I am sorry for your lost, All I can said is what you are feeling is normal and can be very pain full, but you have to start thinking about yourself you are still here and he is in a Spiritual word you need to let him rest pray for him , talk to him if you need it I believe they can still hear us and watch after us, and the last thing he wants is for you to be sad, think and believe you have another ANGEL watching over you, and the happier you are the more rest he will have, It may not be easy not feeling the pain, but leave it to GOD hands if GOD call him is because his time was there remember GOD NEEDS MORE ANGELS TO HELP HIM OVER THERE I am sure you will be with him some day but that's when your time is up ask the lord for healing and make your husband soul rest and be happy I am very sure he always be by your side in his Spirit , GOD BLESS YOU
I don't know how old you are. Someday you will join him, but for the time being. I don't think your husband would have wanted to see you in this much pain. Life goes on, and so do you. If you could try to keep yourself busy that might help.


I was practically raised by my grandmother up to the age of 12 and I loved her very dearly. When my grandmother past on my parents did not tell me because I was in a different country and they knew how devastating the news would be to me. They told me about her passing two years later. The day I found out I cried all day and I think I fell asleep around midnight from just the cons tent crying. This might sound kind of weird, but when I fell asleep I dreamed that my grandmother was holding me and I was still crying and telling her that my parents had told me that she was gone and how they had lied to me. My grandmother held me in my dream, which was so real to me because I could feel her presence and she said for as long as I am in your heart and in your mind I am still alive and with you but when you forget me thats when I am gone. So the moral of the story is that your spouse is still with you, he loves you, and he probably wishes he could tell you that you will be joining me someday but for the time being live your life and enjoy your life for both of us. God bless you, and God be with you. LIVE, LOVE and ENJOY. He is watching over you. Make him happy.
My dad died in 89 my mother still misses him to this date...She hasn't let this stop her from living, she may never get remarried she had the love of her life but she keeps busy. What you need to do is find a purpose, find your passion in life and go after it. In time this will get easier and i believe your husband would want you to live a happy life. Honor him by living a good life and keeping his memory a live.
I am truly sorry for your loss. Its hard when we lose someone we care very much for. I can understand how you feel that you long to be with him soon.





Although this is not the same, I thought that using a personal experience would help you a little. I found out, on Sept. 6 / 08 that my Father was murdered Sept. 2 / 08. We didnt always have the best relationship, but for the past few years, we both we working on making the effort to have a greater bond. It hasnt been easy for me and I am sure that the road is long, before I will ever get the answers I seek. I dont know much info because the Police are still doing their investigation.





For me, healing has been difficult. I have writen letters to him, burning them after I was done, feeling that he would be able to read the words on the Other Side. I have had conversations with him, in my head, more one sided then anything, but it helps to think that I am having a conversation with him. I have lit a candle beside a favourite picture of him, that I have. I let the candle burn for however long I feel the need to. I have also sought out support groups for victims of a homicide. It always helps to be able to talk about my feelings with others who have gone through what I am going through. I have made some tight friendships with some, in the short time that I have been attending.





I am not sure of what else that I can suggest for you to do. Talk to your children. They are the only part of him you have left. Make sure that they know how much their Father loved them. Talk about memories and stories that are funny... one day, when you are gone, they will know how to be with your grandchildren. Keep those memories alive.





I know how much you miss him. I am sure he is with you all the time.





Take care and God Bless!
It still sounds like you are grieving. There isn't anything wrong with that.





It has only been a year and there are no time limits on coming to terms with his passing.





With the way I love my husband, I'm sure it would take me a very long time too accept that he's gone.





Just give yourself some more time to grieve and eventually you Will have peace.





best wishes.
1. Church


2.Local free support groups


3. Church


4.Friends and family


5. Church


6. Joyce Meyer Ministries


7. Keep busy





I am sorry for your loss. Please take care of yourself. Your spouse would have wanted this.





Do things in his memory...plant a special tree or bush, donate to charities, write him letters, most important: ENJOY YOUR LIFE. This is what he would have wanted!
You need grief consoling.And more time.You just don't get over your spouse that easy.And remember it is OK to grieve.Just cry when you feel like crying but remember to smile when you feel like smiling.
I'm so sorry for your loss.


Grief counsellors may be able to help - regardless of whether they have been through it or not. It's not really something you can come out and ask them, anyway.



I am very sorry for your loss. If you want someone who has experienced the same feelings then I suggest you join a support group. It will be people like yourself and can help you with your grief.
:)have faith in god and study islam ,have i told you that we as muslims depend on god in our sadness as our happines?

Is there a diff between a spouse going out with friends, and a spouse going out with a Single newly divorced?

Is there a diff between a spouse going bar hopping with friends that they work with (more then half married ), and a spouse going bar hopping with a Single newly divorced friend of the same sex?Is there a diff between a spouse going out with friends, and a spouse going out with a Single newly divorced?
I think it's 6 of one 1/2 dozen of the other. As long as you know your spouse, you know if it really does matter or not. If one is going to ';get in trouble';, it doesn't matter who they go out with. They're either going to be true to you or they aren't. Doesn't honestly matter who they are out with. Trust is the whole key to your question AND answer. Best to you...:)Is there a diff between a spouse going out with friends, and a spouse going out with a Single newly divorced?
yes





when married couples take the initive to hang out with other happily married people, then they are encouraged by association to stay happily married.


when you see another married man spending quality time with his wife, this reminds you that you should be doing the same





when married couples allow themselves to hang out with single, divorced, or adulterous married people, then they start to think of the dating scene as being not so bad. They become encouraged by associate to either cheat or divorce; and even if they never give in to these thoughts, it can still weaken the marriage.





*I encourage my husband to hang out with all of his friends, single and married, however my husband is a good man with a strong sense of self. Other men, weaker men who are more likely to run with the pack, can not be trusted the way that my husband can be. *
Friends are friends if they are married or not. She is right. You going out with friends and her going out with friends is the same thing. You are having a problem because her friend is newly divorced. What does that have to do with your wife? Her friend is not going to make her or stop her from doing anything that she wants to do.
I do not understand your concern. As long as you have trust, it does not matter whom she goes out with. With out trust, then you have lots of problem, more than can be answered in this forum.
well... the newly divorced friend probably just needs a wingwoman... and its the same sex... so how could she be cheating? Maybe your wife is just trying to be a good friend?
Sometimes they might play the wingman so their friend can pull but that should be about it.
No not of the same sex
as long as you trust your better half there should be no problem.
are you sure she is doing what she says or is she just saying she is with her friends and is really with boyfriends
I fail to see the problem. You go out, she goes out. Seems fair enough to me.

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Is my spouse eligible to receive LASIK or PRK surgery the same way I am?

I know that I can receive free refractive surgery after getting a thorough eye exam, getting my commander's authorization, and then placed onto a waiting list, but is my wife also able to get such treatment?Is my spouse eligible to receive LASIK or PRK surgery the same way I am?
No sir, read up on this great little article.


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I think it answers your question as well as having many difern't facilities offering affordable pricesIs my spouse eligible to receive LASIK or PRK surgery the same way I am?
Nope, spouses still have to pay. I am waiting for the surgery to be free for spouses as well.
no.

Have you ever walked out of the bathroom naked not knowing you had company your spouse let in?

And how long did it take for you to know they where looking at you?Have you ever walked out of the bathroom naked not knowing you had company your spouse let in?
It happens all the time at my house to either my husband or myself and not just because we're walking out of the bathroom it could be any room because we're always undressed at home. .Have you ever walked out of the bathroom naked not knowing you had company your spouse let in?
No but i got changed with the door open not knowing he had a friend over, his friend has now seen me topless(quite embarrassing) but lucky for me i can joke with my hubby about it now. It helped that his mate pretended it didn't happen. Needless to say i always shut the door now even if nobody is here Lol
No, but I've been walking around in a long t-shirt when my husband got home from work with co-workers..and didn't even consider to let me know he'd be bringing people over.
when i was younger i had the company try to get a look at me. there was no accident about it lol. apparently she was my moms friend.
no, but i did walk in on a friend and his wife gettin it on (they even knew i was on my way over), i think they wanted some exhibitionism.... not me though..
Nope, lol that would be funny

Which fruit or vegetable reminds you of your spouse. A head of lettuce, an onion, a cucumber or lemon why?

Great onion comment. :)





My husband reminds me of a lemon..always sour and never sweet. And he puts a pucker on my face.Which fruit or vegetable reminds you of your spouse. A head of lettuce, an onion, a cucumber or lemon why?
a cucumber, of course, and you can imagine why!Which fruit or vegetable reminds you of your spouse. A head of lettuce, an onion, a cucumber or lemon why?
A lemon. Smells sweet, but it really is sour inside.
A cucumber,wink wink.
Onion- because onions have layers.

What is your favorite thing bout your spouse?

I sae a question earlier that got me thinking..........what is your favorite thing about the one you married (or will marry)








**For me it's his tender heart. He is very loving and affectionate and I know I am first in his life.What is your favorite thing bout your spouse?
they way she loves me...


they way that there is nothing missing at all in our realtionship..


to hear her laugh coming from another room,,that just makes me smile....watching her prepare herself to get ready for us to go out,,while i am waiting,,she is so so so so sexy and adorable. or waking up in the middle of the night and she is all wrapped up in me with her legs and arms,,and she is sound asleep.feeling safe and comfortable..push back her hair from her gorgeous face and kiss her forehead,and i whisper to her I love her,,and somehow she always hears me and says..I love you more back..while sleeping? she is an amazing woman..i am so so lucky..What is your favorite thing bout your spouse?
My favorite is hard to pinpoint. There are different times and different stages where there are aspect to his personality that I appreciate more than others. At the moment it's his patience. He is so patient and level headed in all the ways that I am not. It makes him an awesome husband, dad, and person.
He is amazing to me. HE treats me like I am the most important person on the planet. His attitude and level of affection doesn't change when we are around his friends. His friends girlfriends even get jealous at the level of affection he shows me.





He makes sure that I don't put myself last. Sometimes I would rather be economical with money and spend it on other people and not get things I need, he intervenes when I do this.





I guess that he appreciates the little things. And shows me on a daily basis.
hes not my husband.. but one day hopefully :)


hes amazing - his kiss melts me


hes the only guy that has ever just laid in bed with me in the morning and tells me that im beautiful even with messy hair no make up :)


but i think my favorite thing is just the way he looks at me and smiles, like nothing else at that moment matters


oh and it helps that he is oh sooo pleasant to look at, dressed or undressed hehehe :) :) sooo sexy
His mind.


Sure he has a great body, but his mind my favourite feature of my Husband.


And his ability to make me feel so safe, secure and happy.





Plus I have to admit, when he washes his truck in his track pants, and topless, my blood starts boiling. Nothing more I like more, than seeing the sun reflect of his body.
I dont have just one favorite thing about my husband.I love everything about him from head to toe and all in between.If i did have to specify then it would defenitely have to be his love for me.Its always there every single day from the day that we met.Constant and unconditional.
Hmmm...





Personality - I love his ';screw what the world thinks'; attitude - he's so confident of himself and his decisions...they aren't always conventional (not too far out there either...) but he's happy to roll that way irregardless of what others may think.





Physically - He's got a great a$s! What more is there to say?
For me it is my fiancee's tender heart, loving eyes, the little I love you notes he leaves around! when he sneaks up behind me and gives me a cuddle and whisper in my ear, I love you1


he is worth his weight in gold.
her @ss in tight dress, her @ss in tight short little mini skirt, her @ss in tight low rise jeans, her @ss in her workout outfit, her @ss in undies, her @ss in thongs, her @ss in g string, and finally, her @ss buck naked.
She was the most loving ,caring ,gentle kind most beautiful ,and unselfish Person I have ever known .


she has been gone now just over a year and i miss her every day .





R.I.P Pati my one and only love.
He is generous. He would give you the shirt off his back to help you out. He will help anyone out and doesn't expect anything in return. I love that about him.





oh yea and when he wears his tool belt to fix something. something about him and his tool belt. i have forgotten about that until i read charli's answer. need to remember that more often..
I have a number of favorite things. But I guess what sticks out most in my mind as my favorite, is his sense of humor. No one ever has made me laugh as long or as hard without trying.
His smile melts me and he is always telling me and showing me how sexy he thinks I am. He's very affectionate and considerate. He makes me feel great about myself. And he makes me a latte every morning :)
The way he plays with our sons. You can literally see his stressful day melt away when they scream ';Daddy!'; as he walks in the door.
He is very loyal. Physically, I love his big muscular arms.
I love how funny he is, and how passionate he is about the things he puts himself to.
Her unwavering faith. She never seems to let things/problems get to her, looks for the positive in every thing.
That he is the most amazing father in the world (possibly biased lol) and I couldn't imagine having kids with anyone else.


We've got five kids.





I love when he kisses my eyes at night or how he says ';I missed you.'; when we're leading up to sex.
He is a good dad. He also has a good sense of humor.





Oh, and his big arm muscles!!! He's very stong and I think that is sexy.
His sense of humor and his ability to tell ';stories';
Her personality, she has a heart of gold. And beautiful brown eyes.
the fact that she doesn't believe in ';SEXUAL OWNERSHIP';... :D
That we are best friends after 23 years together (21 of them married). He is a wonderful man in all ways!
he is caring..he knows i love coffee n he'll go get it for me whenever I ask him..even a 12 am! This gesture just shows me that he really cares for me!!
He's stong and tough, yet sensitive and caring. He knows me inside-out.





And he can fix ANYTHING!!! BONUS!
Carrie, I am trying my best right now to figure that out.
her private area
He's Paycheck!!!! LOL
He spoils me rotten
those rare moments when i feel like she loves me
keep going on you are lucky