How to avoid a smoker if he/ she is a spouse or a close relative ?

Best line I've heard for spouse is ';kissing you is like kissing an ash tray.'; If nonkissing relative, ask they not smoke in your house if you live separately, otherwise, excuse yourself from their presence saying, ';I seem to be developing a problem with smoke.';How to avoid a smoker if he/ she is a spouse or a close relative ?
Politely ask them not to smoke around you. If they are in your home ask them to go outside. I am a non-smoker but many of my friends are smokers. They usually ask me if they can smoke in my apartment if they are over and I tell them they can smoke in the balcony area of my apartment. If they are close to you, then they wouldn't mind the objection and they should understand.How to avoid a smoker if he/ she is a spouse or a close relative ?
Hi dear,


If you will follow me instead of Avoiding them just tell them frankly that you don't like it and you do have problem with these thing.


if you are thinking they will feel you are wrong .if he/she is your relative they can understand it very well.if they do not then go from that place .automatically they will come to know you don't like.still if you are thinking that they will feel bad then I don't think so buddy there is any other solution.every time just explore yourself instead of being silent.talk talk and talk Be open with everyone.


OK I think it will help you take care dear.Bye:-)
If he or she is a spouse, then you shouldn't have married them. That's just common sense.
ask them to smoke outside if they are in your house. as for your spouse you can't really judge them if they were already a smoker when you married. a close relative, just don't go to their house, or leave the room when they smoke.
tell them that you a have a problem with the smoke and it would be better if they could go outdoor and smoke so this way the relative can smoke and its does not harm you also.so the relationship does not suffer.
share all your feelings which is good or bad.if he/she really loves you he/she took offthe dirty habbits. but if he want to leave the habbit .habbit not leave him then compromise with him and slowly you can change him by giving him so much love and faith.
I think you can speak politely to your friend /spouse /relative about this habit , You can try to make the person aware of the problems arising due to smoking .
Just tell people your feelings! Especially a close relative.
Just tell the person about how you feel of him/her when you are around with him/her.Simple this should solve the problem.