Wednesday, November 23, 2011

Can I be a full-time student and still sponsor my spouse to Canada?

I am in 1st year university. I am waiting for my husband to come to Canada, yes we have been waiting for a while now. In the meantime, life goes on. I am wondering if I have made a bad choice, and if they will be asking me again for proof of income. Is going to school going to negatively affect our case? And if so, what can I do, in case I need to argue my choice to better myself through education, hence for my family.Can I be a full-time student and still sponsor my spouse to Canada?
that's tough... contact the onsulate to find out the details. good luck!Can I be a full-time student and still sponsor my spouse to Canada?
yes, it is legal for him to come on a dependent visa but it might be difficult. As it is, you may be having a difficult time with your finances and it's not practical to expect that a ';student'; sponsors her spouse. However, if you do have the required finances for the time duration of your study, you can utilize the help of a good consultancy to expedite the visa process.





It is better if your husband comes to Canada by some specialized skills on a work visa.
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  • How to settle in Calgary if I reach first time with spouse and child ?

    If reach firt time with my spouse and child.Where I cant rent reasonable house / Can I get job in hospitality industry ? My wife has office work experience. Can she get job ? Is it more easy to settle here than Toronto ? Pls helpHow to settle in Calgary if I reach first time with spouse and child ?
    calgary is a great place to live! Jobs are every where! less than a 1% unemployemnet rate however homes are expensive and hard to come by so be cautious!

    Is it okay NOT to date after the death of a spouse if you have small children? THOUGHTS?

    I am just a little freaked because there are so many freaks and pedophiles these days, I do not want to date until my children are like 18 years old. Is this harmful to them do you think? Am I cheating them of having the other ';parent';? I don't think I am, but I have been accused of that. What are your thoughts?Is it okay NOT to date after the death of a spouse if you have small children? THOUGHTS?
    I don't think you are cheating your children of another parent... They know who their father is and just because he's gone no one can replace him.... Sometimes its easier to date when your children are older because they understand better and they are out of the house already.... I do understand how you feel about having strangers around your children.. There is always a risk but i don't see why you can't date casually and not bring your boyfriend by your children until you been invovled for a long period of time and you are completely sure that he is a good guyIs it okay NOT to date after the death of a spouse if you have small children? THOUGHTS?
    Wow, you have put yourself in a box, haven't you. All men are freaks and pedophiles and will just be dating you, to get at your children.


    Sure their are those kind of people out there, but the percentage of them is really tiny, in the male population.


    No one says you have to introduced some guy you are dating to your children on the first date or so. Go out on dates, some will be great, while other's not so much. But that's what dating is all about, finding out if the two of you make a good match.


    You can tell your kids you are dating, and your date, that you have children. Who knows, he may have children of his own.


    When you find the right guy, and have been with him for a while, then you can bring the kids into the mix.


    Just don't cut yourself off, from a social life, you won't be happy, and your children wont be either.
    I was widowed when my daughter was 7 in 1st grade. I understand the worry about protecting your children. Whether to date or not depends on if YOU are ready. As long as you act responsibly they will be okay.





    You can be a great parent alone or with another mate. I didn't start dating till my daughter was in 7th grade, not because of her but simply because it took me that long to be ready and to find someone of quality that I was willing to date. Then I saw it as a way to provide a good role model for her to watch. (that was very sobering) He was the only one I dated after losing my first husband. We were married after my daughters freshman year.





    Hope that helps. It can be a good life for you and your kids alone or with a step-parent. Remember better to be alone than to just settle, which is worse by far!
    you shouldnt rush in to dating people just yet, they'll think that you forgotten the other person and hate you a lot. and its best to wait till ur kids are at least teenagers or so so they are old enough to understand whats goin on and be sure to choose that person you are dating very carefully.
    Don't rush, but its still better then being single and miserable.
    It was never a rule you had to date





    Its up to you and no one else.

    Is it immoral to stay with a spouse who cheats? I can't find that passage in the bible.?

    I've found stuff about family and forgiveness.





    Maybe I'm looking in the wrong pages?Is it immoral to stay with a spouse who cheats? I can't find that passage in the bible.?
    No, it is not immoral. The cheating spouse is immoral, not the one sticking to his/her wedding vows.Is it immoral to stay with a spouse who cheats? I can't find that passage in the bible.?
    No, it just isn't wise.
    this is a tough one, its not immoral, it is stupidity.
    I think it takes more strength and considerable bravery to stay with someone who cheats. It shows the person can stick with and work through flawed systems. It shows dedication to long term commitments.





    If they were humiliated in public, and still stay with the person, it shows they feel strongly about things other than what other people think of them. It shows they can take the punches and still keep up the good fight.





    Maybe they truly love the person, despite their flaws. After all, if you've been with someone for decades, you know their good points as well as their bad. No one's perfect. Maybe people who cheat or exaggerate their accomplishments have superior qualities in other areas. That's usually how these things work. Look at Benjamin Franklin.





    And, dare I say it, if you have that kind of dedication to your not-perfect spouse, you could fairly be thought of as potentially having that kind of dedication to your not-perfect country. You stick with it...not damn it.





    (queue Tammy Wynnette ';Stand by your Land....';)
    I would say that you don't even have a bible. Like most people who like to pick and choose WHAT THEY HAVE is in the bible if you are true and want the knowledge to the question the person who said it best read the TEN commandments the words COVET and ADULTERY will blind you .
    Yes . it is in there , Jesus says that he would rather you not divorce but (adultery) this is the only way out of a marriage other than death, that is acceptable.in God's eyes.
    i know the bible does teach that if your spouse does cheat..then dump them:)..but i dont think it would be immoral to stay with the person..just dumb
    Sure, some things are more important than sharing a ......
    There is nothing in the Bible that says that, in the old or new testament. I recommend you read Hosea that should tell you everything you need to know.
    Well, if we're going by biblical standards, the adulterer will probably be stoned to death, thereby releiving the spouse the worry of whether to stay together or split up.





    That is of course if the adulterer is a woman, if it's a man, it's not too big of a deal.





    Divorce is shunned more in the Bible than male infidelity.





    SO......My final answer is that if the man's a cheater, God wants you to stay together and deal with it.





    If the woman is the cheater, sorry lady.....and the man gets to start shopping around for a new wife, after he burries the old one.
    Only if your Husband is President and you are planning to run for President in the future.
    not in itself;


    however if a spouse's cheating significantly and pervasively contributes to a betrayed spouses alienation from their own relationship with and potential for Good, then their environment is a stumbling block and they should remove themselves from it;


    I do not know enough about the particular situation I assume you are referring to to offer an opinion---
    Remember the 10 Commandments.





    Thou shalt not commit adultery.
    Not immoral, just stupid. I divorced my first wife after she cheated on me.
    YOU can stay with a spouse who cheats and ask for your forgivness.
    no
    Wrong book all together. look in the DNC little Red Mao cookbook.
    I know your point. So be straight!
    Do you really believe that most of these politicians that are having all of these affairs are Bible readers?
    Check the index.
    No ... Does ANY politician remember what The 10 Commandments ARE ??





    WE MUST REMEMBER ...





    WE NEED to make sure that EVERY man, woman, and child, KNOW how ANTI-AMERICAN Obama and his Reverend(S) ARE !!!





    Would a CONTINUAL 20 years of ';second hand smoke'; have a negative affect on the other people in the area ??





    Would a CONTINUAL 20 years of ';Anti-American Preachings'; have a negative affect on the other people in the area ??





    John F. Kennedy, a Democrat, was sworn in as the 35th President of THE United States of America, at noon on January 20, 1961. In his inaugural address he spoke of the NEED for ALL Americans to be ACTIVE CITIZENS, famously saying, ';Ask not what your country can do for you; ask what you can do for your country.';





    Please NOTICE that it said DEMOCRAT - NOT Socialist and / or Communist Democrat !!





    It means this country is only as strong as the people in it. It means get off your *** and do something!!!


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    The Democratic Elite make the rules and then they change them for their convenience !!





    The Elite Democrats feel like THEY know better than YOU who would be the best person to run the country !!!





    By the People and For the People !!!


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    ';The bible says what God has put together, let no man put asunder';. The marriage vows state ';for better or worse, for richer or poorer, in sickness %26amp; in health, till death do us part';. Jesus also said to forgive the trasspasses of others. How many times? 70x7. Hillary was doing all of those things, just as many spouses have done since time immemorial. It takes a strong %26amp; forgiving person to forgive %26amp; work things out. It's much easier to leave, and what guarantee do you have that the next time it'll be better?
    The entire ';Christian Right'; must have forgotten what Jesus said when asked how many times should I forgive those that tresspass against me 7?


    he said no


    70 times 7
    i think it's only immoral if you start becoming swingers and swapping spouses and stuff like that. Then that's consensual cheating and that's kind of immoral. Oh yeah I love that stuff about family and forgiveness too.

    How do you collect child support is the person doesn't work but the spouse does in VA?

    You can't collect support from the other parent's spouse.... it's the parent's responsibility to pay their own child support obligations. If the parent isn't working then you can't collect, however, arrearages will still accumulate. They are still obligated to pay support so if your case isn't being managed by child support enforcement, I would urge you to contact your local child support office and get things set up for them to handle your case. If the parent starts working or needs to be located, they can help you with that. They will also keep track of arrearages and if he is owed any money (like from state/federal taxes), then they can arrange for his refunds to be taken to pay his child support arrearages.How do you collect child support is the person doesn't work but the spouse does in VA?
    LoL.. what a world we'd live in if this were something obtainable..!!





    Your child's parent's spouse is NOT responsible for paying child support for the child you two had together.. LMAO!!





    Thats the most ridiculous thing I've heard so far regarding child support!


    And I've heard and experienced a lot--including my husband STILL paying support for his 22 yr old daughter via court order.. not to mention we put her threw college, then university.. oh and did I mention the daughter works as well!! AND YES this order was enforced by a judge!





    So.. sometimes EXTREMELY unfair things/arrangments happen when it comes to child support but I HIGHLY HIGHLY HIGHLY doubt your ex's new partner will somehow be found responsible for and ordered to support for your child..





    It'd be a cold in hell let me tell you if my hubbys ex tried to pull something like that on me!!





    How do you collect child support is the person doesn't work but the spouse does in VA?
    File for child support, get your order. Come tax time, their joint return goes straight to your baby.





    ADD: You're all wrong people!! You could give me a thumbs down all you want, but I filed for child support a few years ago, he's not working, but this year I got a big check from the IRS. Their joint return came straight to me. Don't get mad cuz you married a dead beat!!
    it wont matter about the spouses income they wont even consider that........job or no job the non custodial parent will still have to pay
    The spouse isn't responsible for the child support. So, there is no way to collect it that way.
    talk to a lawyer or local welfare agency. They can answer better

    What nickname(s) have you given your spouse/significant other over the years?

    Do they like the nickname(s) or resent them?What nickname(s) have you given your spouse/significant other over the years?
    It depends who is around when I refer to him. Around the grand kids, I'll refer to him as ';grandpa';. When we are with friends and family, I'll usually call him by his given name. When were alone around the house, I'll call him ';sweetie';. When I'm mad at him, I'll call him . . . well, I guess we really don't need to go there! :) And he likes most of the nicknames I use.What nickname(s) have you given your spouse/significant other over the years?
    we have a weird history of ever-chaning pet-names that have been evolving for 10 years. It started as baby but has gone thru changes like buh, boo, beboo with one being primary at any given time. The name also undergoes changes like in Germany, ';das boo.'; or in spain, ';buito';....yeah...we get a kick out of it.





    And we NEVER use each other's first names.
    My husband is Rambo.





    A few years ago, 3 idiots attempted to steal his car in the grocery store parking lot and one was armed. He disabled the weapon, kicked it under the car, hospitalized 2 of them and the 3rd ran away.


    Our neighbor who saw the whole thing compared him to Rambo, and the name stuck. He is a retired Army Ranger and hasn't lost a single skill.





    And yes, he hates it.
    i call him sweetie.this is very odd,as i tended to call my other boyfriends,by their last name,as in ';hey,wagner!'; but from the moment i met my husband-to-be,i had the weirdest urge to call him ';sweetie';.i later found out he took this as a ';sign';,because his deceased mother always called him ';sweetie'; from his earliest childhood till the day she died.she had 6 other children,but he was always the only one she called that perticular nickname.needless to say,i married my sweetie,he loves hearing his life-long nickname-and i am greatful if my mother in lwas spirit really did make me call him that!
    He had the nickname, ';Lucky'; when I met him. (He had won a new car in Boot Camp, when he was 17.)





    I didn't like his given name so Lucky stayed for 43 years.





    He called me ';Bridgit'; Or Dahlin'. I guess because I am irish, and did not like my given name.
    Nothing sweet I can tell you that. He is a very serious person 95 percent of the time. Nothing playful about him. We are not compatible in any thing. I don't mind, after 40 years I still go my own way and enjoy life. Poppy
    I call my husband my Chia pet. He's a pretty hairy guy and it seems he grows a 5:00 shadow within minutes of shaving. He doesn't seem to resent it. It's all in fun.
    Depends on the day.Could vary from Honey to A$$hole. Usually he doesnt resent them. He knows if he's been good or bad and is willing to deal with the results.
    I call him ';dearie'; or, in some instances ';Mr. Excitement.'; He's VERY predictable.
    My husband and I started calling each other Dear early in our marriage as a joke. Then, after time it became a real term of endearment for us both. I miss those years.
    Bear. Sometimes it's Boo-Bear. He calls me Little Bear and I call him Big Bear. He likes his nickname. Gosh, I love that man!!
    Actually, none.








    Have a Seasoned day.
    I have always called him Sweetie. He even looks sweet, and is certainly a sweet guy! At least to me.
    I call him ';sweetie'; or ';honey'; all the time, even when I'm mad at him.
    I would never call him sugar bear sweety pie in front of anyone.
    jackie, I do not think I am allowed to use those name on here and yes resentment could be a word he would use.
    Always been Punkin, 47 years.
    Beau- as in my beau. Likes it
    When we started dating he was my ';Boy Toy'; and he still is after all these years.
    Gramps.
    My little nest of vipers!
    Thump er, because my heart goes thump, thump.

    Military spouse stationed overseas wanting to go home for the holidays?

    my husband is getting deployed in a month, and i want to go home for the holidays (very early nov to late dec) with our 8/9 month old son (how old he will be when traveling). I'm wanting to find the cheapest, and the most cooperative airline to help me since most layovers i'm comming across are about an hour. This will be my second time flying, our son's first. and i'm already a nervous wreck because of that and it being a good 11+ hour flight.





    I'm really looking for discounts or trying to travel space a but i've had no luck at finding space a flights.





    fyi, my only chice to fly out of is yokota and naritaMilitary spouse stationed overseas wanting to go home for the holidays?
    No. 1 Travel has really good offers from Japan, and they do bookings in English. http://www.no1-travel.com/





    Compare here to see if military discount is cheaper: http://www.norfolkairport.com/ -- This airport website is the only source I know that lets you check for military discounts on flights--regardless of where you're starting from or going to.





    Compare all of them to http://www.bookingbuddy.com just to be sure you've got the absolute best offer.





    A 1 hour connection is pretty good for international flights; less than that, and you might not make it because connecting airports are usually massive.Military spouse stationed overseas wanting to go home for the holidays?
    here are some really good discount flight websites, hope they help you for your journey.





    http://www.allcheapfares.com/





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    some of these may not let you purchase any tickets, because you are not in the united states, but i would think quite a few would work. they are the best discount flight websites ive seen. you may want to check orbitz.com. i wish the very best for you and your family.
    Call American Airlines directly and ask for their military discount. We're stationed in the UK and I saved over $200 by doing this. A friend here saved almost $1000. There is a $10 phone booking charge but it was worth it!





    Have a great time visiting your family! Praying that your husband stays safe. Best wishes!
    Can the military provide you with a flight home? I know my husband used to talk about doing so (he was in Navy Aviaiton) but I don't know if dependents can do it. Also go to his command, they may be able to help you find cheap, convenient flights home. Good Luck, and wish your husband the same, I appreciate what he is doing for our country, and you too!!
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